This is just responding to, "Yes I know that this is a cruising group but trust me there was no shortness of guys who were there sucking dick and still wanting to fuck my wife, so this is where I start." I see this lot, really!
You are welcome to be here whoever you are, straight, bi, gay, DL, trans, etc., and whether single, coupled, poly, "cheating," and so on. The main thing is to be open-minded and accepting others and share an interest in public, semi-public, or non-traditional sex. Covert or overt, be sex-positive and you're welcome here.
Back in 1995 Keith Griffith started CFS for gay men, but by the mid- to late-2000s he knew that a lot of people who weren't gay were using it. He and I discussed how to sort of "repackage" the site so that it could appear more appealing to a broader audience without alienating the core group of loyal members.
Unfortunately, we weren't able to put anything in place before his illness and then passing away in 2012. Since then I've managed CFS alone and faced a series of crises that kept me from truly working on the future shape of the site.
I am working on that now, but it still take awhile.
Meanwhile, just know that you belong here and I'm glad you and your wife are here.
~ Bob S.
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