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Originally Posted by jonn3
LOL - that is so true!
There is an ABS in the area and at times all the booths are full and people are waiting, especially for the glory hole booths. When waiting sometimes a conversation will start up but it will be over the most mundane non sexual topics.
It is the middle of porn store with a bunch of horny guys waiting for access to a glory hole and they will be talking weather, politics, last nights TV shows!
Not sure if it is society that makes us nervous or that little fear "What if the person is a cop and this is a raid" but so seldom will anyone address anything about why they are really there.
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You could kinda rationalize the fear of entrapment/sting operation, etc. No doubt, the whole situation must be weird-weird, though.
Now, if a guy chats you up on a Grindr to ask how are you doing ONLY? Well, this sure, is both civil and polite... but I doubt that this is what the guys flock to to those apps for.
I am probably a bit old-fashioned here but if you chat anyone up, you ought to take the risk and spill out your 'plan' or whatever? You are chatting someone up for a reason, so, show some guts and accept the risk of being rejected...or whatever the case may be.
KD