There are lots of guys out there - and from your description on line they will be interested!
What you need to do is look locally -
I see you are in Dallas.
Looking at "sex listings" "Choose by Metro Area" "Dallas/Fort Worth" I see a lot of places where you could go and try and meet someone.
https://listings.cruisingforsex.com/...th-metro-1213/
Good luck - it can be intimidating at first - but it is worth it!