I had a guy who I was hooking up with at a cruising spot following me in a Target. He was with his wife/girlfriend, and I was with my wife. If he had walked up and said hello, it would have burned me for sure because my wife would ask me how I knew him. If you are in public and you see someone, do not go up to them and talk to them unless you know the coast is clear!!! Better to meet up later and talk about the encounter. Set ground rules, etc. Mine are simple: Do not approach me if you see me anywhere else but where we usually meet up!
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