I approve profiles here all the time from guys who are 18 or 19. Especially for our sister site, Adopt a Sex Pig, I am amazed at how much sexual knowledge and skill these young men often claim to have! I am not sure I even knew men could anally fuck until I was about 20 (don't worry; I made up for it!) and some of these guys are keen to be fisted or play watersports at their lovely young age. Bravo for the sexual revolution!!

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That's the real change that has come about with the internet. Where as when I grew up we fumbled and learned and heard snide comments that we then tried to figure out what was real and what was fake - what would be fun and what was just a rumor...

Now they can just come on line and get real advice. Some may be a bit to far for my tastes - and maybe some of the kids may be hearing about some things to young - but it would have been wonderful to have been able to benefit from others.

There was something fun and exciting about figuring out for ourselves - but learning on line also could have saved a lot of stress I put myself through dealing with sexual issues growing up.

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Internet is here to stay... That much is a given.

And, yeah, kids will be using it to get the info they want to, just like the generations before them used the libraries, magazines, older friends, siblings and relatives, etc.

Sure, nothing comes without a price. Easy access to an enormous knowledge base can be good for some and ruinous to the others. This where parents and educators have to show their real worth.

Yet, a new better quality is apparently emerging. Kids are demystifying sex. They are buying it for what it is: a good part of life to be enjoyed; nothing to worry about, get frustrated over, make a huge issue of...

Polls in some of Europe's most conservative regions show that the teenagers and twinks are now adopting a very tolerant attitude towards sex in all its forms. We are all making a huge step forward, if more people adopt the simple view: "This is what I enjoy. You enjoy something else - good for you! Go and have fun! It is your life... I'll be doing my stuff, too

KD

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Oh how I agree with this. Just as we saw in the last national election, this countries youth are playing more of a role in telling the older ways, those ways steeped in prejudice and fear, to make room for a new way of thinking. That applies to our sex, too.

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It is amazing the change in todays youth - although there is still prejudice it is MUCH less that when I was in high school / college -

Being bi is almost "in style" and high schools and even some jr high's have clubs for GLBT youth -

A big change in a short time.

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Hey guys, I'm happy this trhead has had so many repoies. I started it, and want you all to know that my young friend and I are still going strong! The sex is amazing, and we have developed a close and meaningful friendship. I am already partnered, but this young man has brought so much joy into my llife, and my partner has enjoyed his company as well! It's all good here!

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I love being a bottom slut for older men. They're rough, but very sexual. Their cocks are also very tasty.
My age preference is 40-60, and my bodytype preference is chubby or stocky. If they're bald and have a goatee, I will immedietely get on my knees for them and unzip their pants. I LOVE having sex with older men! I'm glad they like fucking young men too.

I hook up with them at adult theaters and (sometimes) truckstops when I'm in need of cock.

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So glad there're young ones like that. My latest regular is a twink who loves to suck me non-stop, get fucked till he's sweating all over, and then hug me tight as we lie in bed. I'm 'almost' a bear. Is it because they feel warm and secure to be with older big guys?

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One of the big liberating experiences of the internet age is that practically everyone can access vast and possibly unbiased knowledge and information.

In the pre-internet age, my buddies and I created a close-knit coterie of fellow college students and few other men of our peer group to facilitate easy sexual encounters. Hardly anyone dared to venture beyond our self-imposed limits. We knew that 'older guys' were obviously interested but we mostly shunned them out of fear that they would abuse us simply because they had more experience, cash, were better networked, etc. The risks were simply too high even for the few guys who were showing some interest in 'older men'. No one has ever reported anything positive about intergenerational dating, and the few stories we heard in our time and day invariably featured an abusive older top who was 'buying' younger dude's favors.

This did not sound too attractive to most of us.

With the onset of the internet age with its massive information exchange, a far more precise image of the intergenerational dating emerged. Sure, some 'older' guys are still preying on the inexperience, lack of funds, lack of functioning social environment, etc.. But as it turned out, a big number of 'older guys' were actually supportive, caring, good providers or simply basically correct mates happy to enjoy a romp in the hay with some or no strings attached.

I am not saying that the internet has brought about a landslide change in the attitudes of young gay men. I have little doubt that most college guys still look for other college guys or dudes in their peer group to hook up with, date, start relationships, etc..

But the intergenerational alternative is visible and present in the lives of many men of all age groups.

The stigma attached to dating older men as in, 'you are whoring yourself for the gifts, money and travel' has been fading away.

I have come across a number of young(er) dudes who, while still playing in the gay/bi mainstream admit to having a daddy on the side. There is a rising societal acceptance to this arrangement in a number of European countries, where a degree of consensus has been reached that your sex life is really your business, and that you should be doing what you feel is right for you.

KD

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I finally started having sex in my senior year of college, 1984, the first few times with someone I found through the Advocate's Personals. In that time, even in progressive Austin, I simply did not know where to go. I discovered a small gay and lesbian (as we called it then) club on campus, but it wasn't interesting. I know very well now that in Texas, Houston would have been the best possible place for LGBTQetc. people from the 1970s onward, from the organizing to the bars and clubs and sex and social scene. Meanwhile, in Austin or San Antonio, where I'd lived with my retired military parents, you couldn't find "gay" or "lesbian" in the Yellow Pages or whatever. If you didn't know someone or see something, you simply would be lost and alone. Little did I know what was happening in the bars and baths virtually under my nose.

In my last couple months of college I had a brief affair with a professor. I was 22, he was a very handsome and attractiive 40-something. We first saw each other at a gay bar downtown.

He was happy to play with someone young, good-looking, and very smart and eager to learn anything, politics, culture, sex, whatever. I was happy to spend time with an attractive older sexy man who didn't expect me to be stupid or irresponsible but who recognized that I was intelligent and eccentric and who gave me both the respect and additional learning I craved. For example, together we watched the TV remake of "The Streetcar Named Desire" with Ann-Margret broadcast that spring and also the 1951 movie version with Vivian Leigh. So this wasn't just about sex. It was also part of the beginning of a rite of passage into the tribe, just as the guy from the Advocate ad had showed me Judy Garland's Christmas Special.

We both knew this interlude would end in May. He went abroad for awhile and I graduated and went back to San Antonio to get ready for grad school in Washington, DC. When I arrived to stay, there were lots of attractive older men who didn't always recognize what they were getting when they got me. There were also lots of guys my age who were cute, but who didn't really share in who I was and what I was all about. I was lucky to meet people, both older and my age, through Dignity, the as-called-then lesbian and gay Catholic group and a few of the men there became sexual connections or good friends or both. And I found the discos (went occasionally), the leather bars (more often), and eventually the sexclubs. When I decided to leave grad school and work instead, I had a lesbian boss from Maryland who told me all the places to go in Baltimore.

As a side note, the sexclubs were better for me than the baths since, in the 80s at least, if you went to one you weren't just wandering around and around to be picky or stand-and-model, you were there to drop all pretense, abandon yourself, and have sex.

So that was my experience as a young guy, so much different than today. To be honest, now that I'm 54 I seldom think about young guys as being potential sex partners even though I may have some aesthetic appreciation. Unless I'm at whatever place and time of abandoning the self and embracing sheer sex -- so seldom with my responsibilities these days -- then I want someone where there's points of commonality. I want that look in the eyes and something interesting to talk about or at least to listen. Although I tend to write too long, I can be a very good listener, and guys my age and older have a lot of life experience to talk about.

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That's so hot! I bet you have a nice cock too! That's the best part about older stocky tops. Their cocks are clean and taste very good. Even their precum is delicious! Every bottom/twink is different so he might be with you because he's comfortable and you're so cuddly!

I like older stocky silverback type men because they're so easy to have sex with lol. I always meet them at the adult theater I go to. If I see one that I like, I'll lock eyes with him, and if he looks back I'll sit/stand close to him. If he doesn't reject me (which never happens), I'll immediately get on my knees. He knows I'm his for the moment, so I'll put his cock in my mouth and start sucking on it.

Older stocky men fuck really good too. I like how they grab my waist as their thrusting their cocks inside me. MMMM. They're amazing for NSA.

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The buying gifts and travel thing is mostly older men 'dating' younger girls (ie:18-25).
Its not really the case with 'Daddy/Son' type encounters. Its mostly for sex, but that's not to say that they never have a real relationship somewhere down the line. And when they do, there's hardly any 'gifts/services' exchanged.

As for me, I'll whore myself to older men just for their cock. I love having a stocky older top man eat my ass and fuck me. I also like it when my forehead touches the bottom of their stomach when I deepthroat them lol.
The only bad thing about some of them is that they don't cut their fingernails very well, so it kinda hurts when they finger my ass.

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personally, at my age (66) I would never DATE someone much younger (-15yrs maybe) but for a nsa hookup: I wouldn't run away from almost any age (legal+) that strikes me as hot. (if he were chasing me, I would prolly walk very slowly... lol ) Sadly it's never happened in real time. Occasionally online some younger men hit me up for some nsa., when it worked out (or in), it has been enjoyable ;-)

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