Here here, I'm "mature" and I'm having a difficult time of finding cocks that want to be serviced by older guys. BoooHooo

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where do you hung out ? I could come by for a quick blow if you want to service some one...lol

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It amazes me reading CL all the guys that either think they will never be older - or are older but still only want college cock!

Saw an ad today - he is in his 50s - lives in my area - says he is totally safe - hot picture - then says he is only looking for smooth guys 18 - 24.

I know there are some younger guys into older - but for this guy to totally rule out anyone close to his age is ridiculous!

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As the Editor of the site, I've been struck by the same thing. I've been a CFS member and user since the late 1990s and am now in my early 50s. I started working for Keith as his programmer/consultant in 2000 and continue keeping the sites running since his death in 2012.

Just yesterday after editing posts for the Sex Listings I was remarking to someone how many people were writing off guys in their 40s and 50s as "trolls" or "too old" without really giving them a chance. For myself, even in my 20s I preferred older men.

That's beside the point. Mainly it's sad to me that so many guys miss out on the pleasure and the knowledge they can gain from the experiences of those who have lived a little. We seem to buy into a myth of youth and beauty that is ephemeral, and it's so easy to miss out on the personal qualities that bring even greater satisfaction. Just my opinion, YMMV.

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I am also in my early 50's now - and when in my 20's no I would not have been turned on by a guy in his 50's. But I also would not be posting "Don't go to XXXXXX bookstore it is just full of trolls in their 50's".

It was not that long ago when guys that had sex with other guys were shunned - outlawed even. People could say "that guy should leave - he is a faggot". Is that so different than saying "that guy should leave - he is old" or fat or Black or Mexican or etc etc.

I am not a politically correct holier than thou type of person - far from it. But as someone who still likes sex in my 50's I suspect I will still be horny in my 60's and 70's - and my feeling is those people need someplace to get lucky just like we do - so let them cruise. If you don't want to have sex with them just say "no thanks".

If you have said no thanks and they keep bothering you - then they are an asshole. And assholes of any age you can bitch about!

But people need to remember - eventually they will get older too.

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On a perfectly selfish level, those "youngsters" that call me "troll" or whatever are just missing out and leaving more for me. I enjoy men my age or older because we have something besides sex in common. We have shared experience, history and the patience.

It is that old bull and young bull analogy all over. Those of us that are old bulls KNOW that walking down there makes the experience much better for all participants.

You don't guzzle a fine Scotch. You don't "hotbox" a fine cigar. You savor and enjoy every mouthful and inhalation. The youngsters (many of them) just don't get it.

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Interesting thread here. I'm 61. Lately I have realized how lucky I am that throughout my life I've been attracted to guys around my own age. Last week was traveling and got my dick sucked by a 66 year old nudist friend who can bring me off with his mouth like nobody else. Also a session with a 51 year old who fucked the daylights out of me and delivered the biggest load ont his belly that I have ever seen. Had a couple of sessions of suck and fuck with a 69 year old with a very ample endowment and a high libido. What could be more fun than that? I occasionally get together with younger guys, but it would be too bad if I was waiting around for the few that are into older guys.

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That is fantastic Al!

Here in Los Angeles it seems the obsession with youth is in overdrive.

Not only in personal ads do most middle / older guys seem to post that they are looking for under 30 - but on the times when I do find a post where the guy is not just looking for a young buff guy it seems like he is into things a lot more extreme or risky that I am looking for.

You are lucky to have some friends to play with - love the 69 year old with the high libido - I hope when I get that age I still have one!

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jonn3....there are some great places in Los Angeles for older guys looking for sex. The Eagle in Silver Lake, the Faultline in East Hollywood, the Gold Goast, Trunks & Mother Lode in West Hollywood are great bars. Also Melrose baths, Slammer the sex club in East Hollywood and the 2 Roman Holiday bath houses (one in Culver City on Venice and one in the valley).

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I started playing with (or rather they played with me) around 13/14 yo in a local cruisy park. So, from that point on, found I attracted older men in their 40's+. Now I'm considered a "daddy" type and am still more attracted to older rather than younger tops, although i get hit on by interested men in their 30's or less. For me, it's who's attached to the other end of the cock that matters more than the age. We all are attracted to what we're attracted to. Best wishes to all in their endeavors.

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Similarly, I started having sex in my college years but usually with guys at least 15, 20, or 25 years older. I was particularly attracted to guys I could talk to and who would treat me as an equal instead of just another cute young twink with a big dick.

Now I'm almost 55 and I'm still more attracted to men at least roughly my own age or older. Of course, I'm bald and have extremely short hair now and seldom wear my contacts and I've lost a lot of weight. Younger guys looking for a Daddy usually pay attention to someone else, which is just as well.

If only I had time to go out and play...

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I was never looking for someone older when I was younger - but I was also not turned off by the idea.

It astounds me how in so many posts you see comments about how this bar or that ABS are just filled with "old trolls in their 40's / 50s / 60s".

I guess some posters don't realize that someday they will be older as well and still be looking to have some fun. They may not want to have sex with them, and that is their choice and fine, but I find it funny in a group that is supposed to be wanting acceptance how many are judgmental.

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