I wanted to relate a story about an older gentleman I met on another site. The issue is not the other site, the issue is what a great experience I had with him. He was an excellent lover! Sensual, thoughtful, patient and experienced. Robert had definitely learned some skills over the years but it was all about the attitude.

Outside of an on-going relationship which comes with all of the attendant maintenance issues, this was a most pleasant afternoon. We chatted, watched some porn and had sex more as long term friends than a first time get together. Robert is 15 years my senior which ,yes, makes him 68. The body is not as firm and the cock is not quite as hard but we both had a great and satisfying time.

If age and appearance is your only concern, thats fine. Your loss is my gain.

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One thing that always bothers me about a lot of posts on all the gay sites... people seem to forget that one day they will be older as well.

You see posts from guys in their 60's saying "no one over 30" or posts about the "old trolls" at the glory hole - they don't seem to realize that when they get to be older they might be "the old guy" at the glory hole!

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Everyone should be free to state their preferences. You are looking for a hookup, not giving a job or a public office. So, if anyone says, he wants to meet up with a guy below 30, well, that's their prerogative. They may or may not be missing on some great experience but it is really for each and everyone of us to decide whom we want to have sex with.

It is only fair to tell people that they should be civil. An older guy is by no means automatically a troll. A bottom dude is not an automatic cum dumpster...

Sure, if you are lucky, you'll reach older age. This goes without saying. This does not oblige anyone to go around offering sympathy sex to the people whom he does not find attractive, hoping that one day, someone may return the favor. We all know that this does not work that way...

KD

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If I hade to choose It would be on older man , wich you can talk about anything , having more life experiences , could give you more advices about life , and having must of the times , a smaller size cock, which I enjoy watching getting wanked outdoors...lol

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That is very true and I agree with you. My problem is when I see posts about an adult bookstore or something and you see posts about how it is being ruined because (fill in the blank) goes there now.

Everyone should be free to look for fun - but if someone is not interested that is cool - but do not fault the other guy for being interested....

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Guys will be always showing their perspective. Someone will say a place is being ruined by (whomever he does NOT like to see there). No one can really stop that. On the upside, this may an ad for the guys who are into that particular type of dudes...

KD

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