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Old 26th July 2007, 12:14 PM
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Did I "misread" This Body Language?!?

Was in ABS along interstate in Indiana. Been there a couple of time before and it is a no hassle place on the part of the mgmt. You buy tokens, spend your time, do what you want, then leave...no comments, no judgment, no questions.

So, here I am on a Tuesday afternoon around 4:00 and other than myself, there is a guy with his door open "goin at it" solo - about 65...not my type.

Shortly after, in walks a guy, early 20's, who walks to one of the hallways and stands against the wall. I move to where I can see him, and he backs away. Then, in comes another guy, maybe 30, who gives me the eye, then walks down the hall where the other guy is standing...I hear them "whispering", but can't make it out and figure, they are just hooking up...

...but they don't. Of the two, the older is a STUD. Short cropped hair, t-shirt with muscles showing, hairy arms and an obvious package in his too tight jeans. The younger guy is relatively skinny, but well groomed in baggy shorts. He stays in the hallway.

The STUD on the otherhand, walks around, keeps giving me the eye, and has what appears to be a growing problem in his jeans. I'm waiting for him to enter one of the booths, but he doesn't...so I go in, drop a token and wait...nothing.

I go back out and he is "whispering" with the other guy again. Now, he's seen the older guy in the booth, and isn't interested from what I can see. I WANT THIS GUY. BAD. I observed he was acting nervous - not uncommon - but while he was very willing to "whisper" to this other guy, he did not make any comment to me other than with his eyes.

Okay, this goes on about 15 minutes...there are a couple of other guys that come in, hook up quickly with each other, which catches the interest of the STUD. He watches them leave, then goes into a booth and locks the door. I checked it...locked.

After a token, he comes out and looks me over again, then goes back to the hallway with the younger guy. I hear them "whispering" again...and start to question whether they are cops working together. I decide to go into a booth and leave the door ajar...the STUD comes in and I didn't say a word or give any encouragment given my concern cited earlier...the video stops and I walk out. He stays there, then I hear a token drop, so I decide to look in. He is there, rubbing his crotch. I watched - but did not touch. He was watching gay porn, then straight porn, then back to gay...and kept looking at me.

Nervous as hell, I asked "Is that all you want to do?" and he shrugged his shoulders...not a word said. I immediately left.

Well over the next 15 minutes, he and the younger guy whispered more and he became more aggressive of his interest in me...nodding his head toward a booth while looking at me, etc. I didn't move. Finally, I left the building and opted to sit in the car...to see if anything was obvious from the outside. Shortly after I left, the younger guy came out and got in his car and was on the phone about a minute...

...I concluded they were cops working together. I opted to go back inside after another cute guy stopped and went inside. He went to a booth and locked it, dropping token after token. The younger guy came back and the STUD continued to walk around. He finally goes into a stall, drops a handful of tokens and I didn't move. After a couple of minutes he comes out, with the video still playing, and leaves...

I checked out the booth and on the floor was a fresh load...obviously left by the STUD. I fingered it, then smelled it. HOT. HOT. HOT.

DAMN...he wasn't a cop. The younger guy left at about the same time (I saw him leaving when I came out of the booth). Maybe they WERE cops...and he just was horny. So, I decided to see what the stud was driving. Much to my surprise, it was an 18 wheel rig behind the building...he was pulling out as I walked out the door and he flipped me off! Huh...???

Where did I go wrong here...wasn't his body language suspect? And what about the "whispering"? He never did that with me?

Being married, I chose on the side of being safe, but now am obcessed with that STUD...or more the fact, what did I do wrong? Right? Any insight? What might you have done differently?
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Old 27th July 2007, 07:36 PM
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Better safe than sorry, my friend

Mid-West states always make me nervous. I don't want to have to become a registered sex offender because I sucked a little cock in an ABS. Paranoids do have enemies. You done good. Cheers, Monty in San Francisco
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Old 29th July 2007, 06:12 PM
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I don't think you did anything wrong. As I read your message and before you expressed your concerns, my instict was also saying "cops". Who knows, maybe they were going to beat your ass. Or maybe the older guy kept hitting on the younger one who just wasn't interested in him.

Anyway, always go with your instincts, even if they prove wrong later.
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Old 30th July 2007, 11:38 AM
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Thanks for your opinions

Guys,

Thanks for your input...nice to hear that I didn't react incorrectly; but if I had to do it over again, I still would do the same - error on the side of safety.
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Old 30th July 2007, 04:47 PM
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i think they were both cocksuckers, that know each other from that bookstore. or they could have been cops..either way, you did the right thing. in my opinion, better safe then sorry. at least you know what he drives, and will probably come across him again.
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Old 3rd August 2007, 02:54 PM
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U Did Well...

Right or wrong, in such matters, you want to go by your gut feeling and you want to err on the side of safety.

Sure, the dude was a HOT STUD. But, he could have meant some serious trouble, too. Yup, shit happens. But think, how would you have felt about it, if your disregarded all the alarms going off and landed yourself in some legal and serious trouble?

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