'How to..' at truck stops?
 

I guess this question is similar to the post entitled 'Leaving calling cards, signs', and I suppose that some of the responses there will apply here, too - but my question is more specific in terms of location.
I am a discrete (read married) bi-male who has few venues to suck or be sucked. I occaisionally have the opportunity to drive (solo) completely across the state of Wisconsin on I-94 and have tried, without luck, to find a hook-up in various gas stops.
But I have noticed their back lots (and all the wayside reststops) are crowded with idling big rigs and wondered, "Surely one (or more) of those truckers is looking for a little oral action, like I am" and I have no clue about how to find out.
So I'm looking for suggestions from those who have had 'suck-sess' at a truckstop or wayside rest stop.
Also, I'd like to hear from truckers who are at those locations and would like to relax while getting a hot blowjob.
OK - that's the fantasy, but what could REALLY happen? Maybe part of my reluctance to try is a fear that it could go horribly wrong. I don't want to cause scene and get yelled at by someone who is offended, or insulted that I would suggest such a thing to them. Physical safety is another question. We all have heard stories about guys who were lured into a hot possibility, only to get stomped (or worse) by a bigot.
The CFS Sex Listings (thankyouthankyouthankyou) have a lot of 'where to look' suggestions - I'd like a little help in 'how to detect and/or signal interest' along with tips specific to truckers and truckstops.

This is getting too long, so I hope I have explained what I am looking for: suggestions for (or hot stories of!) making a connection at a truck stop or wayside rest.
Thanks!

I used to drive that route a couple of times a year when my daughter was going to school in Minnesota and it was pretty boring.

Here's a review of truck stop sex from the UK perspective. It's in the More Features section from the left sidebar.

http://www.cruisingforsex.com/features/lorry.html

I'm sure I've seen some very extensive discussions in the forums a few years ago. I just did a search for "truck stop" and got 491 hits. I don't feel like going thru them all to find the ones I remember but you can look at the ones with a lot of replies that have a likely title.

gay truckers blog
 

I've dreamt of similar situations myself. Try this, I just found it this morning.
On the Home page...click on the "Criusemasters blog". ( A great blog I might add !! These C-masters have all the fun !)... on the right side of that blog are other listed blogs, look for the "gay truckers blog", that will take you to a site with some potential for which you seek.

I hear ya.... Taking 10 hrs is boring
 

I also look for any signal from my fellow drivers but it is not easy....

I run I-75 from GA to OH

this is risky
 

wen i go out looking for "dates" i will dress in my cutest skimpiest lil outfits and prance around the back lots of rest areas and truck stops kinda puttin myself out there to attract the truckers. if i catch the eye of an interested trucker he will flicker his lights at me. i have only gotten in trouble one time doing this. the only thing that happened to me was that a couple of the guys that worked at the truck stop told me to leave the property. but for the most part i have been pretty successful.

American truck drivers are'nt the same as 'lorry drivers'. If you can find the drivers lounge at truck stops sometimes you can 'talk it up' with drivers over such topics as sports or how do they like the job etc while watching TV. They will let you know if they're looking. At rest areas it's best to let them come to you either in the toilets or at a picnic table. I don't know about the 'interior lights-on' because they are on break and could be doing thier logbook or something. Obviously the eyes have it.
Sadly pimps will offer the services of underage girls (and maybe boys) at the major truckstops as we've read in news reports.

I'm an older truck driver doer from back in the day. (I could write a book) But today, in the US, the do-a-trucker thing is pretty much history and has been for many years. Today it's just a j/o fantasy. There are many reasons for this, not the least has to do with relatively recent DOT enforced security measures. Those drivers are in a sort of prison quite honestly. Even the guys driving these days are quite different bunch from 20-30 yrs ago. "Friendly" "buff" and "kempt" are not descriptions that come to mind. And then there's this more recent sort of reactionary behavior secondary to the gay marriage thing that has aggravated a lot of hetero and even some horny bi men. These days you gotta be EXTRA careful if it's str8 types you like (like I do). You should hear the discussions I overhear at my local MOR str8 bars. Not pretty.

I think the last time I saw a trucker getting done (quite a few years back) the dude that was doing him was wearing make-up a wig panty hose heels and a dress. That says a lot.

Being a fellow cruiser for a few years, I cannot but agree with HoneyPot here. The thing is mostly a JO fantasy these days.

There is nothing wrong with having fantasies. But in real life, you want to get some fun and move on. A gay bar, spa, or your usual cruising area may be your best bets.

It takes some experience to gauge the risks involved. Sure, the trucker fantasy may be hot but it is very risky, and most likely pretty difficult to achieve, you may want to look into other options...

KD

Having never done this I am probably not the one to offer theories -

But these days I suspect most quick hook-ups are done more via smart phone apps than finding a guy in the mens room. I have seen some hot looking guys at rest stops - but never felt the risk was worth it to take a chance...

I have a lot of suck ses with a site called ***********. it;s free and shows all guys in your area looking for sex. it also has listing for everything in the area youre at....it's online as well as a mobile site on your phone.

Hey Tigger22 -

Unfortunately the auto censor removed the site you were referring to.

You need to br ea k it up or spell part of it out so that it will no automatically remove the name of the site.

Rest Area sex
 

be very careful----many, straight "christians" are on the hunt to put a stop to this......and honestly i am out to put a stop to "christianity"....so....be very, very careful....i don't have the best hearing..but...i do have, perception and eye sight.....these "christians" have actually LIED...to police about things that i have done...or haven't.....and this will come back in their face one day.....

also....you never know what you would run into....a 109 year old man...that everything sags to his waste or below.....someone with an std....when i was 18...i actually hooked up with a trucker in Iowa.......we actually spent over 1 hr.....doinking......for one reason or another....he jumped me....and beat the crap out of me...calling me faggot and all that......again...you just never know......be very careful.....

I hang out at "public" rest areas (I work at night, so it's always on the way home, in the dark) that I know are regular sex playgrounds.
One is a legitimate rest area for cars and big rigs, and the other is a scenic overlook that's always "active" at night (and often in the daytime, too!). If a trucker has parked there, chances are pretty good they are open to some company.

Being relatively unskilled, at this point, I park my car, and just take the bull by the ... well, horns. I carefully walk up to the passenger side of the cab and gently knock on the door. If the driver is awake, he'll come to the window at least, and I just ask him flat out if he has a load of sperm he'd like to share with me. About half the time, it's a "no" -- sometimes curt, sometimes friendly. But the other half, I get ushered into the cab, and we have some nice wet fun. I've been lucky, I guess, in that I haven't had a bad experience in the back of a sleeper yet. Lots of hard cocks and pretty nipples, some warm piss, and lots of hot sperm pumped into my mouth. Lots of cuddling, too, and some kissing which is always nice. Often, I'm asked if I can stay all night, but I'm usually on the way home, like I said, so I just can't.

Once in a while, I approach a cab and the driver is sitting in the driver's seat, nude and waiting up. (Literally) That's a pretty good sign that we'll have some fun.

It's a crapshoot, but you'll never know unless you try.

there are ways to get action, if you have a cb radio, you can "advertise" be either dead keying your mic, just for a second, or say some like , good time on channel, and pick a channel to listen to, you will be surprised by what you get i think. if your in a rest area, you can write something on the walls or leave a piece of paper with a note on it.

I wouldn't want to bother with truckers. They're sitting all day and night, not getting exercise. They're usually smelly from sweating and being cooped up all day.

But if you must, then one method is to flash your brake lights a couple times. If there's interest you see someone flashing their brake lights.

Check me out

Halley is right—truckers can’t get showers every day when you’re on a tight schedule and may have to wait in line to get a shower he may have to pay for. So if you’re expecting a fresh-smelling guy, rather than one with some man-musk, look elsewhere. I’ll take my fellow drivers, no problems here with men who smell like real men!

About brake-light flashing: don’t. There are better ways of attracting a trucker’s attention, and brake lights aren’t one of them. Get out of your car and stroll where you can be seen from a respectful distance. If a trucker is interested, he’ll acknowledge you, wave you over, or pop open his cab door as an invite to come in. Brake light flashing attracts the attention of cops and of people who will report you to the cops.

I have a spot where not only truckers pull off to hook up, but other guys as well. If a truck driver stops at this spot, you can almost guarantee that he is looking. Many times I will see them in their rig with their shirts off. That is a really good sign. Sometimes, at night, their interior light is on, and you can see through the windshield they are naked or in their underwear. Another good sign. Sometimes I will be cruising slowly by them while they are sitting in the drivers seat with the window rolled down. I make sure my window is rolled down. If they look at me, I stop, and say hello. Usually within 30 seconds, I can tell what they are looking for. I have asked if I could see the inside of their truck because I have never seen one before. Usually, I step up on the step, and I see his cock is out. Other times I walk by "stretching my legs." I make it a point to make one loop around the truck so I can see into the rig, and so he can see me. If he is looking, he will talk to me. Hope this helps.

I have never had the luck for it to happen - but the fantasy sure sounds fun!

Just the idea of meeting in a parking lot and just going for it - a truck driver who probably considers himself straight but needs some relief on the road.

Been a couple of times in rest area bathrooms where we seemed to be checking each other out - but either I was with someone or they were so nothing more that a look and a fantasy happened.

Was driving across the state over the 4th of July weekend and saw all those trucks at rest areas and it makes you think at least one of the drivers must want a blow job!

Yep. I saw the same thing over the July 4 holiday. I was traveling with my wife, so I couldn't cruise. :(

omg i have thought the same thing!!! a smorgasbord! ;)

Sharing this recent true story. Yesterday, October 25, 2021, I was at the Lion's Den ABS at the Bowman off-ramp on I-26 here in South Carolina. The booths were closed, and I was pretty pissed because I was horny as hell. I really needed a release, whether it be by my own hand, or a someone sucking my dick.

I went outside and I saw a young truck driver parking across the parking lot. I did the typical "rub your crotch" move because he was looking right at me. He continued staring, so I grabbed my crotch and gave it a good long squeeze, rubbing it up and down. He rolled his window down and continued looking in my direction, so I started walking over to him, rubbing my crotch as I walked. He continued looking at me while he was putting up the curtain in the front window of his cab. He was really checking me out now, so I unzipped my pants and casually put my hand inside and continued manipulating my hard cock. It had to be pretty obvious to him by now that I was stroking in public.

I got up to his truck and he said hello. I told him I was a fan of trucks and always wanted to see what they looked like on the inside. He invited me to step up on the side. Now I could see inside. He was wearing very thing gym shorts that showed his own hard on completely. I could count every vein through the cloth! I reached in and stroked him. He asked me inside, and of course I said yes.

He was young, in his late twenties, and hot. Once inside, I wasted no time and stripped naked quickly. All I was wearing was a cock ring and a wedding ring. He pulled off his shorts and shirts and he was naked too. I started sucking his cock, which was pretty impressive at about 9" and pretty thick. He was so fucking hot, and he had low hanging balls which really turn me on. I squeezed them and pulled as I sucked. He loved it!

He returned the favor by sucking my cock, but he bent me over, and pulled my cock out by my ass. He licked my ass as he sucked my cock, and I got really horny. My ass started quivering which means it is hungry for cock.

Soon, I could feel him lubing my hole with Vaseline. He said nothing, and I just let him have his way. I could feel the head of his cock touching my hole. His hands firmly resting on my hips. Suddenly, he pulled me back onto his man meat, and he was balls deep with one pull. The sudden filling of my ass with cock was amazing! The slight downward bend of his cock caused him to hit my prostate just right. I could feel globs of cum starting to ooze out of my cock as he pressed up against my prostate.

I told him I needed a man to fuck me good. He pulled back almost all the way out, and rammed it in hard again. He did this a few times, and each time I was in ecstasy!! He then started to drive deep with long hard thrusts. His hands controlled me and he had taken control.

When I am a bottom I am a total slut. When I top, I am very aggressive. I loved having him essentially raping my ass hard and deep. He pounded me like this for almost fifteen minutes. His low-hangers were swinging between my legs and slapping my balls. It was like flicking a guy's nuts with your fingers as you suck him. The pain/pleasure was awesome. My cock was leaking so much real come from being milked, I just used it as lubricant. What was left over, I licked off my hand.

This young buck fucked me good and hard the whole time. I reached back and grabbed his ass, pulling him in deeper. At times, my eyes rolled back in my head, and I thought I would pass out from the pleasure. I could feel his rock-hard abs tightening. His cock was engorging more. He said he was close to cumming, so I told him I wanted his load in my ass. I stroked my own cock to the same rhythm he was fucking me at.

Suddenly, his body convulsed and he drove deep into me, holding me tight against him. As he did this, my own cock exploded with juice all over the inside of his truck sleeper. We both held this position for what seemed like an eternity. We then collapsed onto his sleeper bed with his cock still in me. I thought we were done, but he started slowly fucking me some more. The cum in my ass made me sloppy inside, and the slurping sounds of my used, stretched ass, were hot! He continued fucking me for a few more minutes then we stopped.

Fortunately he had plenty of paper towels and wipes. I pretty much had to take a hoe bath in his truck to clean off all the cum, lube, and sweat. I slowly got dressed as he lay there naked on the bed. I bent over him and kissed him long and hard, our tongues exploring each other's mouths. He said he comes through that way often and he said he wanted to play again. Next time he wants me to fuck him!

buttpiratesc - DAMN that was hot!

The way you kept grabbing your crotch - even unzipping your pants - way braver than I would have been!


It is so weird how at times your ass just craves it...

Good old Vaseline - have not used it in years. Works great as a lube but damn is it messy!


Lucky You! I hope you get to hook up again!

Fortunately, he was the only one who could see me. The crotch grab is no worse than a certain ethnic minority that is always grabbing the crotch. As for unzipping, nobody was watching, and my hand was in my pants, so nobody could really see me rubbing my cock, but it was obvious to the trucker.

Hear anything new from the trucker on when he will be in the area again?

No, he said to look for him when I pass through. He is there sporadically and not always at the same time. I hooked up with another trucker a couple of days ago. He had me flat on my back with my feet in the air. He had a pretty thick cock that stretched me, but it lacked the length that I truly enjoy.

buttpiratesc -

It may not have been as long as you wanted - but you got some! Congratulations!

No wonder all the US distribution of goods is so far behind - all the truck drivers are spending their time fucking you rather than delivering to the stores! :D

Hmmm,, I wish that was the reason!!! I found a regular with a big fat cock who is a top only. The problem is he has wood problems. He goes soft as he enters me, even if he takes a viagra. :( I am about to dump him and find someone else.

no good truck stops around by me. i do like driving late at night hitting the truck routes wearing a revealing blouse and push up bra hoping someone would take notice!!!

I have been tapping the brakes 3x as I pass every truck on the interstate. I have had a few reply by blinking their headlights, but when I pull off into a rest area, etc, they keep going. I have been hitting a dry spell. The two truckers I have been meeting at Lions Den ABS haven't been there since Thanksgiving. I really need someone to put my cock into, but I also need to have my ass fucked by a big cock! I am having sexual dreams at night of me being fucked by a massive black cock. I wake up and my cock is dripping with pre-cum. So far, my wife hasn't noticed.

They're playing headgames with you would be my guess.

Fortunately, the truckers who park at Lion's Den ABS in Bowman, SC are not playing head games. I have been hooking up with them from time to time. Been kind of a dry spell since Thanksgiving. I need an ass to fuck or a big cock to pound my ass. Don't care which. I just need some raw man-to-man sex!

Hopefully your dry spell is over.

For me it is a lot longer than since Thanksgiving - but I am determined this year to get my courage together and get out there - I really need to suck a cock and taste a man again!

Dry spell still going on. It is a total drought!! I go to bed every night dreaming of a cock in my ass, one in my mouth, and a guy's mouth on my cock all at once!!!

Got lucky
 

So two weeks ago I met up with a white trucker with a 9" fat cock! I was sucking him and I needed to feel him in my ass, so I asked him to top me. No condom. No lube available. I said, "fuck it!" and I got his cock wet with my spit and let him shove it in. This was my first dry fuck ever.



Once he was in balls deep, my ass felt like it made its own lube or something. He started fucking me and it felt like I was lubricated. He pounded pretty hard and then suddenly stopped and pulled out. He went limp and I asked him if he came in me, but he said no. I tried to squeeze out any cum that may have been deposited, but none came out.



He told me the best way to hook up at truck stops is at night. Park with your interior lights on in front of a truck. The brake tapping thing helps. Sometimes you might have to get out and walk around your car "checking your tires" while stroking yourself through your pants. Make sure the trucker in the cab sees what you are doing and is taking interest, otherwise, you are wasting your time.

9" fat cock... DRY? Damn! Were you able to walk the next day?

Only ever tried it without lube once - he produced a ton of precum and was sure it would work - well he got the head in and that was that.



I wonder what happened to make him suddenly go soft without cumming? Did he get off at all?





That all makes sense - especially the "at night" part - I suspect most of these truckers are married and "straight" so the cover of darkness would help.

Honestly, I think he came in me. I feel robbed though, because I want a gusher load that will leak out when the guy pulls out. I am amazed that he got in. My spit isn't all that lubricating. Once the head got in, he shoved it in the rest of the way. Then suddenly, it felt like I had lube in me. He didn't seem to precum much when I was sucking him, but I was grateful that it didn't feel as bad as I expected. I was able to walk. All day I had the feeling he was still in my ass and it was a good reminder of the fun we had.

Glad it mostly worked out for you. My one time trying without lube as I said - he got the head in with precum but then it felt like sandpaper trying to go in. He stopped when I promised that with lube I would let him do it - the next afternoon with no notice he showed up at the door with Vaseline - a big grin and and a hard on. Guess he didn't want to wait!

There is something so "wrong" / "dirty" / exciting about feeling your buddies load leaking out after...