Bi Guys & Rimming
 

There have been many long and sometimes contentious discussions about whether there is really such a thing as being bi (versus being gay and unwilling to admit it) and if there is where do you draw the line. I hooked up with a guy last week who rimmed me before sucking my cock and swallowing my load. It was hot and I enjoyed getting rimmed but that is something that I have no interest in doing myself.

This guy was not effeminate but he and all the guys who have ever rimmed me were definitely gay. I haven't gotten together with very many bi guys but none has expressed the faintest interest in rimming.

Is rimming the definite dividing line between bis & gays? Are you or have you ever met any bi guys who like licking another guy's ass?

Rimming goes on in het sex as well. As you found, it is quite enjoyable. Guys who enjoy rimming another guy do so for a number of reasons: the scent and taste; the interaction between tongue and ass; the way some men get even more turned on from the stimulation.

It certainly isn't a demarc between gay, bi, or anything else; nor is it a delineation between top and bottom. Many "tops" rim to get their partner more relaxed and receptive for penetration. Bottoms rim because it is pleasing.

If anything, the hypothetical "line" between bi and gay has more to do with the desire and emotional satisfaction a man derives from a partner of the opposite sex. "Genuine" bisexuals are more or less equally stimulated and satisfied with either gender; gay men have far greater satisfaction with male partners.