I've been out of touch for awhile and am looking for places to meet hot men who like sex outdoor / public sex in groups or whatever. I especially like in shape exhibitionist & guys who like getting naked. I'll keep checking here for awhile to see if anyone replies. I suppose I could leave an email address but not sure if this site will allow it but will try it if this post doesn't produce. Com'mon guys, lets get naked and frisky and ditch this tedious shit of making dates on computer.

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Thanks for posting! I'll try to answer your questions about CFS because I've been in charge of the site since Keith, who had started it in 1995, passed away in 2012. I'd worked with him doing consulting, programming, etc since 2000.

The Message Board really is used much less now than say, fifteen years ago. I'm not sure if the typical person on the web, Apps, or whatever is really into this format for hookups now.

Brief explanation: From the mid-2000s onward we lost a lot of hook-up oriented users to Craigslist, also to the various hook-up sites. The mobile apps - Grindr, Scruff, etc. - changed things even more. Keith had not anticipated how mobile devices would change everything so quickly and so profoundly. I've played catch-up with CFS ever since, have a plan to upgrade everything to newer mobile-friendly software and design, but there are many delays.

About leaving an email address, Keith had never allowed that in Message Board posts because they come up in Google and other search engines. The CFS Profile Pages are programmed so they should not come up in Google, etc. So, we want contact information of any type -- email, phone, any Internet/Mobile App messaging service -- to be in the Profile Page. That protects members and CFS, too.

Now, about what you're looking for... Damn. I used to live in San Diego and I went up to LA or Palm Springs all the time. Back then I went to Slammer or the Gauntlet as often as I could. or outdoors to Black's Beach or some of the canyon parks.

Slammer does have a number of positive reviews on our Sex Listings in the last year, although it's not outdoors. The Sex Listings get a lot more postings than the Message Board. For example, they show that Griffith Park action has moved from one spot to another, also that the Angeles National Forest cruisy spot is not good anymore.

You might try searching the Sex Listings for the types of outdoor spots you like. Are you ever near Dana Point? Even if a place has no recent reviews, you can post a question on the lines of "Is this place still active? Does it get busy? When's the best times?" and so on.

Also: If you want to post your email address or other contact info really publicly, you can do that on our Personals and also say what you want, suggest a specific time and place, etc. You have more freedom in what you post there than on the Message Board and Sex Listings.

As for me, I moved back to Texas quite awhile ago. But if I were still there I'm sure you'd see me. Sounds like a great time in the making!

~ Bob S.
Manager / Editor

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