Dear Abby has some advice today for the wife who finds out her husband is having sex with men. For me, in a situation like this, the issue is of course not some revulsion over gay sex or being bisexual. Instead, it is about being dishonest with someone whom you pledged to do otherwise. Sorry, gentleman, but a vow is a vow. If you want to change the terms of your vows, that is the healthy solution and, no, that need not mean ending your marriage. But your wife deserves to know the honest truth about your life.

http://www.suntimes.com/lifestyles/a...bands-gay.html

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