Agreed. The idea of cruising focused on making contact with intent. As to the actual execution of the deed that is up to circumstances. I cruise a lot and have a low intensity gaydar beacon on to draw the guys who are looking to connect. The key is not to get cornered in to a situation where cross signals equal a violent reaction. There are, and always have been places where guys know why guys are loitering with intent. The word gets out and more sophisticated cruisers both straight and gay can sniff out a honey pot of potential action. Once signals match the action can happen anywhere if mutually agreed.

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