I wonder if one of the reasons so many guys enjoy giving head is because the don't have to. I think woman hate being forced to give head so theyavoid it. If you read the above response in this thread it is obvious that most of these guys chose to give BJ, they weren't forced.

Another reason for why men like to give head to men is that it doesn't last for a long time. There are times that I go down on a woman and she just never gets there, and I find I more interested in getting it over with than doing it.

To all of you joy givers...thanks Jim

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I can't say that's true for me Jim. I enjoy giving heafd to the women too. No matter how long it takes.

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Cock sucking is pure evil and disgusting and dirty. We aren't supposed to even LOOK at another guys dick (yeah, right), much less stare at one. God forbid you even touch one, or even think about touching one. Hell, touching your own is wrong. Your organs need to be hidden, covered up, not talked about. It's just so shameful and wrong.

So getting on your knees, and looking UP CLOSE and PERSONAl has got to be one of the most awful things we can do in society. And worse than touching a phallus with your hand, my GOD, you are going to touch that vile thing with your lips and mouth. And even let it get into your mouth. And keep it in your mouth. Nice people just don't do that sort of thing. I'm a nice person. Heh, heh, heh. And no one is going to ever know that not only do I do this reprehensible act, but hell, I enjoy it!

Anything that evil, digusting, and vile just has to be a turn on. If only my friends knew what I enjoyed doing in my spare time...

Those thoughts race through my mind every time I'm near an eager twink, or anyone interested in what is bulging in my jockies.

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For me it's an oral thing. I can spend huge amounts of time using my nouth on a lover. Like bigj33 I'm just as oral with women. Tits, ass, pussy. When I'm there, it's the best. Then when I grab a nice hard on and wrap my lips around it, that's the best. (If it ain't rock hard, it doesn't meet my lips. I'm a picky bastard) I don't rim guys, only chicks. Figure that one out. However, I do insist on reciprication from all I give it to. And if you think women can't give head -- you just ain't been around. There are some who are lousy, just like there are some guys who are so bad you lose it within a minute.

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Hay, great response and great picture.

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Yep, for me, it's much like for desertjoe. I give great heads (they say !) and love doing it on different cocks. each has its own ad dfifferent reaction, sensittive spot, etc... I love to deep-head nice cocks, and feel the vibrations deep in my throat. I love the sensation of slowly climaxing and finally explodinf with hot spurts of manly cream. My record so far is 20 in a row, in a geneva toilet one saturday afternoon. Quite a day !!

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I got back from a noon trip to one of our local ABS; and was thinking about this while I was servicing many horny dudes.

I liked them all, but really enjoyed one in particular. It was at the half staff stage when he pulled it out, so I got to work it up to full hard status with my lips and tongue (I really love sucking on a nice mushroom cap with short sharp hard sucks), then running my mouth down the length of it, coatiing it with spit as I worked it, feeling it get really hard and hearing my buddy start to moan. I then went all the way down till I felt his hair under my nose and felt it pop through my gullet, and worked his helmet over real good with with my throat muscles while my tongue washed the rest of his dick. Sure enough, he started to moan and wanted to pull out, but I moaned to let him know I really wanted his load. He obliged, and I took the tip in my lips and sucked like a starving wolf pup. He really let out a yelp, and I got a nice five or six squirts of warm goo (nothing like a buddy popping his cork in my mouth, letting me know how good he feels right then).

The rest were fun and fine too (six more, only four loads), but there's something about taking a cock from half soft to full strength and back to soft that makes me feel great. I don't need a blowjob in return, I usually am hard as hell and leaking all over when I've got a boner in my mouth. I'll just jack it while I wait for my next suck pal.

So thanks to all you feeders out there who appreciate the skills of a happy horny cocksucker. Keep 'em cumming, and don't worry about why I like it, just enjoy what we can give another man.

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It's a good question. I like to suck more than get blown, so I have asked myself that question more than once.

Here is my answer. It turns me on sucking a large cock while I jack off. I don't know why it turns me on.

However, I am very particular about what dick I want to suck and some, even though they are hard, just don't turn me on.

The most I have ever been tunred on was while sucking and stroking thise guys cock that was probaly 10 inches long and thick enough that my fingers would not close around it. I was jsut holding my cock and slowy troking him through a GH and I started shooting my cum, without even stroking. I felt like I was stroking my cock through his. It was strange, but the orgasm was the best I have had to date.

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If your cock is big and hard, I'm truly interested.

Northern California, Coos Bay, Ashland, Medford in Oregon, and other places.

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My need for sucking cock is two fold:

1. Its the pacifyer thing. I remember still being on the bottle when I was 4, pathetic I know, but I find something strangely familar and satisifying about having a man's cock in my mouth. Sometimes I can just lay there between his legs with it in my mouth and go to sleep.

2. Cum is what the man contributes to passing on life to the next generation, so for me on a spiritual level, when a man pumps his seed into me, regardless of which end he is using, it is like he is giving me life. This could turn out to be a crewl paradox, so I do make every effort to be safe.

Lately I find I love being choked by deep throating a big cock, the o2 deprivation thing makes me crazy(er).

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I love the smell of clean, slightly sweaty, cologne, and just manly smell. The feel of my lips tightly wrapped around a throbbin veiny pole. Sliding every rock hard inch in and out of my warm, wet, eager mouth. I feel like I'm in an exotic and dirty trance bobbin up and down...must please my man, like some zombie suck slut.

I don't want to get all psychological, but my Dad has never been close to me and I have always craved a close male friend or male approval, but they never seem to be more than casual friends...NON-sexual, I mean. I know that bjs are the hottest way to please a man and I figure I really need the approval of a man so I love to suck. I really need a regular bimarried fuck/suck buddy so our wives won't know and we can enjoy each other anytime. Plus, it lets me explore my fem side...I'm masc and many people see me as some hard ass.

Honestly, I'm good at eating pussy, but just don't like it. Too much work huntin for the clit. I guess dick is for extroverts...right out there in my face. One last thing, I know this sounds crazy but I really love to talk and never seem to shut up...sucking dick is the only time I really don't have much to say. I just want a guy to shut me up by stuffin his hard throbbin pole into my mouth. I still like dirty talk, but focus my mouth on suckin dick not givin a speech.

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I don't always swallow but I do expect cum as my reward for a good blowjob....feeling that cock swell in my mouth before erupting is such a rush...the up close look of a nice cock and set of balls is a big turnon...and then the musky man smell is a big bonus...being on my knees while a man slowly fucks my mouth with his stiff cock is wonderful....

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Beautiful men are beautiful - worship aspect. Main thing, for me.

Sharing someone's orgasm is intense, primal, intimate - aspect of being very honest, real and "in" with the dude, if only for a brief moment.

Power aspect - maybe, but that would cut several ways. Cocksucker submits - but submits by choice, by his own consent, as a compliment to the top. Cocksucker is powerful & powerless at same time.

Getting the top's load, is a compliment from the top & a sign of his masculine health. I actually prefer the cum-filled guys who shoot fast & might give it again

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Couldn't agree more. On the title "Why do they suck?" I don't care why as long as they suck and suck. My latest was a sucker who needed some "encouragement" to go deep throat. He chocked a few times, but I was patient and let him do shallow sucking for an extended time, and occasionally penetrated deep into his throat. I could see he wasn't that comfortable. So, I turned him round to fuck him. He was moaning, so I fucked him harder and harder, and slapped his backside. But I usually cannot cum by anal fucking alone. So, I changed back to mouth-fucking him. I could feel he did not want me to cum in his mouth, as when I was cumming, he withdrew and just wanked me hard at his face. I shot loads onto his face. He then remarked what a "slut" I am. Rather than feeling bad, I actually felt really good and proud to be a "slut" for him, and with him being my "slut." That was in my hometown. Several weeks before, on a business trip to another city, I had a wonderful young twink whom I spent two days with, and he only wanted to "bottom" in everything. Of course he wanted to be fucked, but as usual I could fuck for a long time and not cum. He realized that, so he sucked and sucked me till I blew my load into his mouth. The next day, we were at it again, and I blew another load into his mouth. After having a nap for a couple of hours in each other's arms, he said he wanted to make love with me till late at night. Despite my age (late 50s), he (age 22) really really wanted me to blow another load into his mouth, which would normally be difficult. But this "slut" was so insistent and so good. He sucked and sucked nonstop with me pounding into his mouth, until it happened. So, 3 loads in 2 days. Not bad for my age. We both knew I had to leave the next day, and this must be why he wanted to eat me as much as possible. It must have been the best sex I ever had since the days of my youth. I never imagined it would be this good. But I guess some young twinks are really into older folks and I am thankful for that, regardless of how long before we could see each other again. I'd have to create reasons for regular business trips to this city.

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The scent and the taste of a man are why I suck.

Some people think of gay sex as feminine - not me - it is total man. And like men it can be soft and passionate or rough and tumble - but it is all about the pleasure we are giving each other.

And nothing expresses that pleasure more than the taste of his load in my mouth.

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I like making guys happy - especially masculine bear or jock types. And a hard cock feels amazing in my mouth.

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