Can any one share gang-bang experience?
I'm generally a top, but have an ultimate fantasy to be the bottom for group of guys - basically to get gang-banged, take one after the other. Given the chance, I want to try fullfilling this fantasy this summer for my b-day. So, any advice on how to set this up or recommend any good baths or clubs where it could be easy to get in this situation, please advise. My only requirement is use of condoms. I'm a fairly good-looking, masc. guy, mid-20's, so hopefully I would be attractive to some guys.
Again, any recommendations or advice is greatly appreciated, as well as any good stories.


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Hey BB

Experience, here it comes:

Most of the GBs I have taken part in, took part pretty spontaniously in one of the SoMa sex clubs in San Francisco. (Admittedly, a few memorable ones took place in Paris, Amsterdam, Berlin, Budapest and in Vienna, too). I was under the impression that no one really planned or set up anything. A scene developed, some guys started lining up to get sucked, the others simply lined up at the other end. More often than not, the bttm guy would simply take it from both ends to the maximum of his capacity and break up, once he has had enough of it. No one would usually get upset or anything, since one or the other scene, if not necessarily a gangbang, would be developing just few steps away. So, you would move on, the bttm dude would move on and possibly re-start another 'mass event' a bit later.

I have no problem admitting that this was always very HOT and that I loved an impromptu, laidback gangbang in particular, if the bttm dude was a preppie/college/sk8/street kind of a hottie. Chatting with other tops who were lining up, taking over from another dude and fillin' in that hole...can't complain. It has been always FUN.

Yet, the key issue, that although most guys (by far) used condoms, few dudes choose not to. The bttm dude was too busy and had his mouth stuffed anyway to check on rubbers or even raise an objection. So, yeah, Safer Sex is a MAJOR issue here with 'spontanious' gangbangs. Fun as it is, this is one, solid, big, overwhelming reason, why I would not do it this way. The risk is simply far too high, IMHE, that is.

Another issue remains the choice of partners. Some guys opting to get gangbanged tend to see it as 'an open house'. So, whoever stops by is welcome. Basically, the bttm dude, under such circumstances has little or no choice of partners. I have seen few bttm dudes trying to say 'not you' but 'this other guy' should now take over. This was rarely respected. On couple of ocassions, if the bttm dude was too insistent, the whole scene broke up and the tops went searching for other bttms. Few guys even commented like 'What a fake!' Gangbang really only works, if the tops line up at both ends, to top the dude, one after the other, with possibly few guys playing around. If the word spreads that you might be waiting in line just to be humiliated before the others by being told 'nope, not you' , the line will break up and the gangbang will most likely be a very shortlived one.

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Yet, there was another experience which might be relevant here.

Few years ago, I met a young guy in one of the IRC rooms. We chatted on and off for almost two weeks and he started opening up. He was a fresh Stanford college graduate, his folks gave up on almost anything and everything, so that he could go to college, get a job, start a family, eventually take care of his ole' folks, etc. He was a deeply closeted case and wanted it that way. He also wanted a gangbang. Badly so. He had two major concerns. One was obviously, Safe Sex and the other one was his anonymity. Like I said, he was a bad closet case and 'knew' that someone was going to see him and recognize him as he would be getting in or out of an ABS, gay bar or a sex club. That 'someone' was also going to ring up his 'ole folks' and spill the beans right away... So, the dude was very, very paranoid but he sure was a superhot stud, too.

Within a week or so, he gained sufficient confidence that I was not going to tell on him and that I was going to help him out with his fantasy. From there on, it was an easy ride. We met once for coffies in the Union Street, made sure, we were for real and agreed on the simple rules.

Next Friday afternoon, few of my buddies and I all met up in a nice hotel suite, had a beer or two each and we gangbanged the Stanford hottie well into the night. The guys, I invited, all behaved, so no one tried anything without the rubber. The Stanford dude wanted to protect his anonymity, so he wore a mask which was also a blindfold. We agreed that as much as he was interested in protecting his own anonymity, the other guys wanted to do the same. He fully agreed, right away. We had a blast, needless to say. So, he basically agreed to my choice of his partners. He said, he was attracted to mature, strong men in their late 30s - early 40s but it was for me to call the shots. I largely respected his wish but made few exceptions, too.

The Stanford dude chatted me up next Monday or Tuesday and thanked me for doing all that for him. (I thought, I owed him my thanks. He was a real sport.) That was the last time, I heard anything from him. Whereever he is, hope, he is having a ball.

KD

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