Not sure if you were referring to Riki's posts or mine (maybe all of them), but yeah it was fucking hot to have a man deposit his hot jizz inside me while his lover watches, and then have the lover use it as lube to fuck me some more. And the second guy said he was extra turned on by feeling his lover's jizz (usually he just tastes or sees it). That was pretty obvious by the degree of pounding. Nothing like sweaty mansex.

When we were young we always did it bareback - I remember one buddy telling it "it is safer than with a girl you can't get pregnant" and there was something so exciting and "dirty" about knowing he shot inside you.

Then the news came of AIDS and how it was transmitted. I remember thinking "well no more bareback for awhile" but I was sure it would not be long before they had a cure and a vaccine. I never would have guessed it would still be around in 2017.

Same here, "can't get pregnant", so free to go all the way! For the guys I was with the only time he wore a condom was to keep it 'suckably clean':p, and the occasional practice shot for the gf (hey, sounds like a reasonable excuse! lol afterall, some teens were pretty awkward putting the things on) and some wanting to feel the difference on/off/specialty (like ribbed etc). All sorts of experimentation!:D

We never worried about "suckably clean" because on the times it went to anal we knew it was going to finish with anal!

But yeah there were a number of times using condoms as a teaching experience - making sure we knew how they felt and putting them or right "for the girl friends" - only problem was he moved on to the girl friends and left me wanting more! :mad:

I was 16/17, we had been sucking each other intermittently a couple years, this one time he just got his driver's license & got his dad's station-wagon, picked me up and parked in a wooded area and did our usual back & forth oral exchange in the bed of the wagon, but then he wanted my dick in his ass (something that I never encountered, seemed weird but ok) some Vaseline he had handy and he really seemed to love it. OK, your turn!, well he really liked it so I figured what the heck, I'l try it... Owie! nope don't like it. It's ok, takes a little while first time, you'll love it (kept going) you are really tight, relax (yeah how?!) (I'm not getting into it, stings) Clearly remember his throbbing as he shot., not hurting as much., kind of a little rush but I never let him again and it was years before I let someone else try., but was happy to fuck him as much as he wanted. He kept trying to convince me you have to do it a few times before it gets fantastic! (no thank you) Next time, I learned it's important for them not to go in fast first!, but seemed by the time my butt was getting used to the dick and really liking it, they were finishing. I see guys on xtube etc going 30min or hours and wonder what that would be like to get fucked like that. (I know what its like to suck like that! luv muti-cumers! :-)!

Wow - you were really lucky - he wanted you to fuck him! My first time my friend brought Vaseline - but it was me he wanted to bend over - not him!


That is the piece of advice everyone gives - but no one can tell you how the hell do you relax when you have a cock going in something that up to a few moments before was only used as an exit? Relax? Yeah right...

<blockquote>how the hell do you relax when you have a cock going in</blockquote>No one ever told you? Yikes. It's simple.

You relax the rest of your body, take a deep breath or two, and at the same time in your anal region, you slightly "bear down" or "push out" like you are slightly trying to crap. This makes your hole more open.

If my description makes no sense, practice at home on a dildo until it does. BTW, it is also why you (as a bottom) need to clean out before getting fucked. Because most people never want any actual crap to come out, as the bottom pushes his hole open to the cock.

If you have a hairy hole, it helps to shave or buzz-trim the area immediately around it. For me as a hairy bottom: my "hole hairs" being dragged/pulled in contact with the top's dick is quite uncomfortable; especially if he's in a condom. Conversely, a smooth hole is comfortable for us both. A smooth hole plus barebacking (and PrEP of course) is bliss.

Old gay proverb - "If you don't like anal sex, it's because you've never had good anal sex." I think that applies equally for the top & bottom roles.

Being relaxed in general makes a big difference., and sometimes a distraction can work wonders. I remember being very surprised how easily someone (who was fairly hung) slid into my butt when I was busy enjoying myself sucking another.

I was being rhetorical -

I was thinking about as a yoiuth when I first got fucked and my buddy kept telling me to relax -

Distractions like women who "think about their knitting," no. But the distraction you had would loosen me up too.

Sounds like a lot of guys had to be talked into doing something that they weren't eager to try. Relaxing only goes so far. I had the urge to be penetrated early on, and I got a lot of pleasure with the prostate stimulation. So I was well practiced with implements before I got fucked by my first man. I had a little apprehension and it was surely a novel feeling, but I was so satisfied watching and feeling that man on top of me pleasuring himself and me at the same time.

It was in 1982. I remember going to an adult bookstore. I met a guy there, and he took me home with him. We watched porn, and sucked each other for a long time. Then he lubed his cock, and slid it into my ass. I was shocked that it went in easy. I guess my ass was horny. He started slow, then got to a pounding speed. I was on all fours, stroking my cock. His cock was literally milking my prostate, and I was leaking big globs of thick, white cum. He was fucking me pretty hard, then all of a sudden, he tensed up and I could feel the big wad of seed flowing through his long, thick cock as it entered me. I could feel the warm wetness, and about then, I blew my own mega-load. I think I have a better understanding of a female orgasm now. He pulled out slowly, and the warm load ran out of my stretched, used ass. I felt like such a slut, and it felt good! I put my booty gym shorts on (remember it was the 80s), and I went home. I had a huge wet spot in my shorts when I walked through my apartment complex, and cum was running down my leg. I felt like such a whore! lol.

Damn buttpiratesc!

Great first time - to have taken it that easy - I am impressed!

I have since had the opportunity to have guys fuck me in a cruising area in the woods on the way to work, and they came in my ass. I love a hard, deep, fuck! As soon as I get horned up, my ass dilates for the pole that will be pounding me. Usually, the guy can pretty much shove it in hard as long as he has good lube. I don't get fucked very often, as I am with my wife all the time, so I want a good ass fucking when the chance occurs.

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was hanging with some older friends,i was 14, slim fem looking. my best friend was 16, gave me my first bj.
One day we skipped school went over to his hose,just the 2 of us. He asked me to dress in his sisters clothes,which to please him i did.

So we ended up watching some pron his dad had,sitting on the couch with his arm around me,feeling his hand on my nipples drove me crazy,then he started kissing mel, unbuttoning the blouse until he could suck my nipples and rn his hand up my legs. I was so ready for hi by that time so when he pushed me on my back,spread my legs and held them up i was exstatic.he lifted my hips and helf the head of his cock against my hole,pushed it in slow until the head was all the way in and then just slammed deep into me. Kept fucking me for a long time,kissing me and twisting my nipples while i begged for more. ll of a sudden i felt him shudder,then i was filled with his hot massive load. We kept this up for a long time,gradually fully dressing me and going ot on dates,even doubled with a friend and his gf once. I've been hooked on anal since,and still dress sometimes.

I remember playing with an older neighbor boy. I was about 8 years old. He was at least 14. I would go to his house to play, and we would be alone when his mom went shopping. He taught me about jerking off. He had an awesome cock, and he would lay on the sofa naked and jerk off until he blew his youthful wad on his own chest. I would stroke him, and he would stroke me. I wish I wasn't afraid of sucking at that age!!! I would go home, and I would jerk off in the bathroom. Every time I was close to cumming, I would stop because I didn't understand the feeling. Finally, I went all the way, and DAMN! I blew a big load! I have been blowing massive loads ever since. Every time I fuck my wife or a guy, I leave a massive load in their holes. I am very bi and very versatile these days. If I only knew back then what I know now. Shit, college life could have been much more fun!