This is supposed to be a dirty stories section??????

Got a story for us, Goof?

It is not just fiction stories - it is often tales of things have happened - which can lead to some fun discussions -

Many of here have been hanging around these boards for a while now.

We have read a number of dirty stories, too. One way or the other, a guy bumps into another guy, (or a group), and some sexual action invariably takes place. If it doesn't, it ain't dirty.

After a while, everyone starts looking around and exploring the contexts. This is, actually, the juicy bit. The fact that the two guys got together and fucked, is pretty much a given. The events that led to the encounter, and what happened past the actual act is what keeps many people coming back to the stories section.

KD

It is so different now - you see kids in coming out as gay at 13....

Even though we were having gay sex - you never talked about it as "gay" just as "being horny". Top / bottom / oral whatever it was about guys needing to get off and needing more than just their own hand.

And most of the guys I fooled around with went on to get married and have children. I have no idea how many of them still think back on those days or perhaps play around on the side - I am sure some do - but a lot of them just wanted and needed the sex and once they started to get girls regularly the time with guys faded away.

And that was just an accepted part of it back then.

Yup. The society is getting more transparent, and everyone is supposed to tell everything about themselves on the social networks, in order to get any life whatsoever.

This is good to some extent. Yet, I cannot stop wondering if every 13 year old really knows that he is gay? I am also wondering if he fully understands the consequences of his coming out, too. I have little doubt that some folks do it at a very young age because a friend who is otherwise totally cool did it, so they do not want to be seen as lagging behind.

I seriously doubt that just because some guys fool around with other dudes in their HS/college days, ALL of them are really gay, and ALL of them want to adopt the full gay lifestyle.

I also doubt that ALL the straight guy ever forget that they did mess around with other guys in their time and day. These experiences are part of whom they are, and in many ways, they are liberating experiences. Such guys rarely become hostages of the heteronormative society. They know pretty well that there is an alternative sexual outlet out there. M2M sex may now not be their first choice but the experience is here, and it carries quite some weight.

KD

Thanks to the miracles of modern technology I am still in touch with a few of my old teenage playmates - and most all of them are not gay or living the gay lifestyle - they are married with kids and seem very happy.

I have no idea what could have happened if we had been caught or outed - but to them it was not love - it was not a lifestyle - it was SEX. We were teenage boys and our cocks needed more than just our hands - and as they say "any port in a storm". Some of the guys were clearly more into it that others and I suspect could still be bi (if they act on it I have no way of knowing) but others I knew we fooled around but as more and more girls started to put out they were less and less into it - and it was clear - they were far from gay - they had just been horny.

What might have happened if they had felt pressure to come out at that age I don't know - but I do know we would not have hung out like we did as at that age I would have been to afraid to spend all my time hanging out with a publicly known gay guy....