I engage in a compromise of sorts I think is OK and I like. I follow all the sucking precautions, no brushing, etc. I use a condom while sucking, but at the end I have the guy jack off on my face. I don't shave the day of such a session and make sure I have no cuts there. For me this is the best of both worlds. I get to suck, I get to see the guy cum, and I get my face splattered with a hot load. Is this safe, or mostly so? If you want to cum on my face, see my post under Wisconsin in the communal stalls.

Sounds hot! I like to get a facial too. Just remember not to get any in your eyes. That is a mode of transmission most people don't think about.

Thanks for the reply. You're right, most people don't think of the eyes. I wear glasses, so I can see the guy shoot, and it hits my glasses and goes all over my face. I just love seeing a big cock being stroked inches from my face, about to shoot. It's so hot! And then the cum shoots,it's so warm and I love when it strikes my face with force.

Any other facial lovers out there?

I was wondering iabout the peroxide what about rinsing just before aswell as afterpleas only well edjucated responces and please spare me a a 200 word post about how mutch you you love to suck cock I think that has been covered , I think that the fact that we do is a given,if it wasnt ,we would not be having this discusion in the first place duh!...

Here's a site that has info on the amount of virus in semen of men who are on antiretrovirals (free site, no registration): http://www.aegis.com/

I am new to this whole scene. In fact I met this guy on cfs board who advertised in Baltimore that he was a Service Station.I had been in fantasy mode for years about letting a guy suck me off but then this guy
Tom..(Pleasingu) did and I was in ecstasy.
The thing is this guy sucks my dick dry and takes every bit of cum in his mouth like it is food for the Gods. He does not seem to be
at all in fear of HIV and claims he is negative.
Apart of me really wants to stay away from this guy but he sucks dick so well I find myself paging him whenever I get away from the wife.
My question is this.....How safe is it for me to receive a blow job...Has anyone ever received HIV this way...Please don't put me down for maybe such a naive question, but it was only two months ago that I had any gay sex.
Chris

You as the suckee can't get HIV this way. So relax and enjoy a great BJ. The sucker is the one at risk. Scroll up and see my post of October 13.

Thank God for the men who enjoy leaning back and letting someone service them. Using my mouth and tongue and hands to give someone the best oral orgasm they've had in a month (or longer, sometimes) is a bigger delight than having an orgasm myself (though I like those, too, let it be said...) When I am in "service" mode, I really don't want reciprocation. I do enjoy verbal feedback, and being carressed (hair, neck, shoulders) is very nice, too.

I have been sucking cock for a very long time (since my older brother taught me how to do it by on-the-job-training, so to speak <g> ). I get checkups regularly, and have never had an STD (thank God, again).

Thanks for a chance to talk about it!
chicagoservicemaster

fyi: my partner and I have been together for 4 years and I found out 7 months ago I've been positive the whole time. He's swallowed more loads than I can count. I can, however count the number of loads I actually seen: only 6! I freaked when I found out I was positive, but not for me; for him. He is such a great guy and I love him to death. He was never very promiscuous but I was a total whore before we met. Truth be told: HE IS HIV NEGATIVE! I am so grateful. I don't know what the risks really are and I don't think anyone does. It's such a relative thing. For some any amount of risk is enough to consider it total and for some low means low. All I know is my own experience. And that is the my honey is negative and continues to swallow as long as he's comfortable with it. I will never pressure him and will allow him to continue to make his own choices without guilt. He is participating in the AIDSVAX trial too, so I'll cross my fingers. I love him and I don't want to harm him, but It's such a difficult issue for me. I know that intellectually, I can say "just don't let him suck you" but I am also smart enough to know that that don't mean shit when I'm hot and his mouth is open.
What do you all think?

also, for the record, I have been completely and totally honest with him about my status. We consider HIV "our" illness and not only mine. With this I also include my family and friends. I have never denied the impact that this may also have on them and can't take HIV proprietarily

I am interested in visiting a place with gloryholes and sucking a few cocks. I plan on requesting that the guys wear condoms. I will supply them. My question is: Which condoms seem to be the best for sucking on?

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Hey Dy: In the early days of AIDS guys (top & bottom) used condoms for oral sex. But, it is pretty rare now. I'd be surprised if anyone at a video booth store, glory hole club, or sex club would let you put a rubber on it before you suck it. Just go for the dick you like, give it a lick, and check and see if there is much precum, or if it is a dry dick. There is not much chance of AIDS through a blowjob. The bigger question is whether to take the treat in your mouth and/or whether to swallow the load when you've worked so hard to get it. A lot of people believe that stomach acid does a pretty good job of killing viruses. Good luck. Keep us posted and what you decide to do.

My experience is similar to many of you. I got my first blowjob (not counting playing around with my pals as a undeveloped kid) in a bookstore through a glory hole. This was the first time I experienced someone swallowing my load. I was eighteen, and even with masterbating 2-3 times a day, I managed to deliver like I never had before. I felt as though I had been drained from the top of my head to the tip of my toes.

I was a naive and curious kid and went in the bookstore to see my first gay porn. That was back in the old days when booths were barely big enough for one person and the show was a shitty projector that projected onto an small panel in the booth. I still miss that familar sound of the projector purring!! I did not even have my dick out when I felt a subtle warm breeze on my hand. I didn't even know what a gloryhole was!! I felt this breeze again and felt the wall (the booth was too dark to see a thing) and found a hole just big enough for a cock. Needless to say, that was the beginning of many years of pleasurable no-name sex!!

Over a period of time I discovered that I liked sucking dick as much or more than I liked having my dick sucked. I never let anyone come in my mouth, but enjoyed the warm hard meat in my mouth just the same. One day I was taken by complete surprise by a young latino boy (man) that came within a minute or so. I had his cock deep in my throat when he released his load without warning. For a second I wanted to immediately pull away and spit it out, but the incredible feeling of that fat cock pulsating it's load overwhelmed me. This boy had a huge load of the sweetest cum I have ever had the pleasure to swallow! I have been hooked ever since! Kinda like the coke addict that always wants to get that perfect high, the last 20 years of my life have been spent searching for the perfect load, and I have encountered many!

Now that I have you all hot and bothered, I will tell you this:

I recently was tested and remain HIV-. I have swallowed untold amounts of cum over the past two decades, and even had a lover for 6 months that called me 8 months after we stopped seeing each other from the hospital to tell me he had phnumonia and was full-blown. I had swallowed him probably 100 times in the six months we saw each other. I immediately went for testing and, after the scare of my life, was thankful to God that I tested negative. The waiting was horrible and I cryed myself to sleep many nights thinking that the only test result possible would be positive. I continue to get tested about every 6 months.

I also have very little experience with being fucked, and insist on condoms and lube when the rare occasion comes up. More recently I had a lover for 4 years and we had a little agreement, he could only fuck me on holidays! I don't enjoy it but will from time to time give in to be hospitable. Next thing I knew the little fucker was inventing all sorts of holidays! (He was from Mexico and you know how those guys are with holidays and celebrations!!) Madonna's "Holiday" was his theme song!

Back to the subject of this post, although there is risk in contracting HIV through oral contact, I must agree that it must be a very low risk. The combination of saliva and stomach acid contributes greatly to warding off infection. Once while being tested and discussing my sex life (as anyone who has been tested knows they like to do), the doctor said not to worry about what makes it to the stomach because the virus is very fragile and will die on contact with stomach acid. She also warned to try not to take cum in your mouth because of transmission through cuts,sores, poor gums, raw throat, etc.

Well, that is my two cents worth. There is risk in life, but try to keep it to a minimum! At the same time, enjoy life while you are here because you never know when it is time to move on. I will continue to search for the perfect load, and will reward my tastebuds and stomach during the hunt!

Health, Peace and Love to ALL-

What about the risk of getting AIDS from having your ass eaten? I haven't seen any information on this?

The risk from rimming was answered by my doctor when I asked. The risk for transmission of AIDS is quite low. Yes, since the AIDS virus basically infects all cells it is present in feces and alimentary canal mucous.
However, the bigger risks involve Hepatitis, parasitic disease, and diseases associated with human waste (Dysentery, Cholera, etc.). Minimizing these risks revolves again around knowing your partner and their behaviors, cleanliness, vaccination, using dental dams, and having regular doctor checkups and tests to detect any of the associated risks.
All forms of sexual activity with the exception of j/o carries a risk of exposure to a multitude of bacteria, virus, etc. Knowing the risks and dealing with them effectively requires an open dialogue with your doctor. Also make sure your doctor stays up on latest developments and news associated with AIDS and other contagions. Some do, some do not.