Hey guys! So I have never had or done anything publicly with strangers. No ABS, or Cruisy spots, no gloryholes. I know it sucks ! I really want to, but not sure what to do when I go to one of these spots . So I'm asking for advice, tips, and the basics of cruising. Can you guys help me out? I cant wait to suck some strangers cock, and be sucked in public !
J

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First, if there is an adult bookstore near you, play it a visit. Depending on local ordinances, there may or may not be gloryholes. If they are there, just wait a short while. If a finger wiggles through, suck it as a sign of your intention. Things will progress from there. Or you can stick your finger through and give the other boother a come here gesture. The rest will proceed naturally.
If there are no gloryholes, just leave your booth door open a crack. Enjoy the movie and jerk off. Someone will make the first move soon. Remember, the ABS is a business. It pays the bills with the money from the booths. Keep the movie running.
As a note, most ABS clerks that have been around a while are not adverse to participating. Even if they are not gay, they are willing to use your mouth or ass. However, they can't usually get away from the counter while the store is open. Strike up a conversation with them, maybe ask them how they get their relief after working around some much sex everyday. Let them know you would be so horny by the end of a shift, you would want to jump the last customer in the store. It might not work the first time as they might be concerned about the security risk of having someone in the store after hours, but once they get use to you!!!!!
A local gay bar is a good alternative if you are the friendly, outgoing type. There is less privacy at a gay bar, everyone will know you are there for the same thing they are. Strike up a conversation with one or two people. Don't expect to be hauled into the bathroom and bent over the sink, but you might pick up a companion for the night. I prefer someone who will be there for the night rather than a quickie, but I won't turn down the quickie.
I've seen postings on Craigslist, but am never sure how many are legit, or safe.
You can join the local gay support group to make contacts and get local information, but don't treat it as a match making service.

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