Imagine a gay man in 1948 from NYC. That's kind of a decent description of the soul that I am. I don't leave the house without dressing properly (and that means the suit). I don't 'make up' plans as I go along. An evening to me should be planned at least the day before, begin around 7 and be done by 11:30, with dinner and some form of entertainment filling the time in between. I use a telephone, I do not text OR 'text speak', and I can still write a whole letter in cursive. Yes, I am old fashioned, which does not mean 'prude'. It just means that I've decided to maintain a certain level of sophistication and intellect that most today do not. I'm looking for someone who is on the same wavelength.

I am, by all accounts and measures...'average'. The only thing about me that is NOT 'average' is my ability to recognize and acknowledge the fact that I AM 'average'. Something most of you need to look in the mirror and acknowledge yourself. If you're in Pittsburgh, there aren't that many 'spectaculars' out there. Look in your own mirror and own it! Then maybe once you get over your superiority complex, you'll humble yourself to meet someone you might actually like as a person.

Kinds of guys I'm looking for are short, dark complected, black hair and dark eyes, and extremely furry bottoms who are perfect gentlemen on the streets, but not inhibited in the sheets. Unpretentious, non-fagufactured types take precedence (no tats, chest velcro 'designer stubble', no piercings, no stupid over gelled pointy hairdos like the other twenty five guys in the line to the bar). LOVE a guy who hasn't adopted the queer lingos and do NOT call themselves 'twink, bear, daddy', etc. Can't relate, and would like to find another guy who can't relate to it either. I am NOT looking for a typical closet case headless torso, or no face pic posted at all, to come to my house, fuck up my sheets, and then run home to wifey, hubby, BF, or housefull of pets. If you're not prepared to make a real connection, and explore friendship and really KNOWING someone, move on to the next profile represented by a headless torso. If the thought of spending the entire night never crosses your mind, then don't cross my path. I'm just not into it.

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