Hope someone could give a good answer to this. Thanks!

My BF and I went cruising together couple of nights ago and picked up a nice, young guy in his early 20's, a bit on the wiry side, cute and all. He invited us to his place and we were soon at it. He got plugged on both ends and was loving it. After quite a bit of rompin' in the hay, the two of were spent and he shot his load, too. We started to dress and were about to thank him for a hot night when he asked, if we wanted to help him out. Sure, if there was anything we could do for him.

He showed us his 'toy cabinet' and asked if we could help him play with his toys. We agreed. It took us some time and we went through all the usual 'Jeff Strycker Dicks' etc. He shot a very massive load, and was as happy about it... I thought, well, that was it and was going to start packing from his place when he opened yet another cabinet and pulled out something that looked like a relatively thin, 3 ft. long dong. I guess, this may be handy, if you want to make your pet elephant happy. It did not look like it was any good for human use.

My BF signalled, he was not into this and I felt, I knew too little about this kind of toy to play without possibly causing a serious injury. We said one big 'Sorry' in unison and left.

I did have a similar experience years ago with another bttm dude who wanted to have me insert a monster dick of half the length, and we played but I certainly did not push anything more than 1/4 or 1/3 of the total length in.

I guess, this is more of a medical question now: can you help the dude play with such a schlong and how do you do that while making sure you do not cause any injury? We kinda liked the dude and would like to hook up with him again.

I did ask him about how much of that stuff was he getting into himself and he claimed, it was more than half of the total length. I am not sure about this and do not feel like being involved into anything that might seriously or even permanently hurt the guy. Yeah, he might be a bit on a crazy side, but I do not have to take an active part in hurting a fellow dude.

Any thoughts?

Thx again!

KD

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Well... that toy you described sounds like an anal probe to me.

Now, I've seen lots of anal probes of varying sizes, including the gigantic and seemingly unrealistic size you mentioned. I always thought the extra-long lengths were mostly just for show.

When browsing an adult toy store, I often come upon dildos and anal toys of such immense proportion that I think to myself that they cannot possibly be used in their entirety on any average human being. To me, I just figured they were for shock value, to be given as obnoxious gifts, or to be used only partially. I have wondered now and then if there were some folks out there who could take these kinds of things internally and imagined that probably there are indeed a few. But I just assumed that these people were much more the exception than the rule.

Can't much help you with instructions on how to use such a thing on someone and NOT injure them. If it were me, I'd decline such an invitation as well. Having seen some... uh... interesting stuff in porno films, I guess I can say that the human asshole can take an awful lot of abuse, albeit with lots of practice.

I do know that those who are more or less inexperienced with some of the more intense types of insertions CAN cause some damage. For example, those well-versed in fisting know that there are rules which must be followed.

In reality, probably most folks who own a three-foot anal probe do not, as a rule, take all three feet inside of them. For the few that DO -- I'd guess they would have to more or less walk a new partner through the experience step by step.

I once knew a dude who had a massive toy chest under his bed, hidden away in a gigantic Rubbermaid storage bin. There was all sorts of shit in there -- some gadgets and gizmos I'd never seen before. But he didn't have any anal toys of absurd length or girth.

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