Coming Out?

TightAsThong · #1 4th July 2005, 08:07 PM

Wondering how many people came out as bi-sexual when they were only looking for sex and fuck buddys?
Iam not sure it is worth it to come out to my family / friends while only being VERY bi-curious.

GayWhiteTrash · #2 5th July 2005, 06:44 AM

Sounds like too much information to me. Imagine your dad telling you one day that him and your mom are very happy but sometimes she puts on a strap-on dildo and pounds his ass for hours. It just seems like more than anyone needs to know.

If you are only curious and want some dick every now and then I can't imagine why anyone would care or even want to know.

gayfun4u · #3 6th July 2005, 02:17 AM

I am like 'thightasthong'. i am bi-curious i only meet guys when i need sex. i am attracted to women, but when i need sex i hook up with a man if i cant get it with a woman. i am not attracted to men in anyway, i know i'm not gay, i just like sex with guys.

gigboy · #4 6th July 2005, 10:07 AM

If you're on curious, why get others involved in your curiosity unless you and your girl friend/wife want to explore alternative sexual styles/experiences. Most others who are not bi-curious or otherwise will never understand your curiousity. But, on occassion I've been surprised.

It's interesting that you like sex with guys, but are not gay. I sort of get it. I'm a crossdresser who's only intimate with mostly other cds and an occassional admirer, but only with the persona and feeling of being a woman. I'm not attracted to guys as guys; only guys and cds as a femme. So, in that way I don't think of me as gay. Infact, before I began actively crossdressing publically, I tried sex with other guys as a guy. But, it was unsatisfactory cause I acted like was women and they wanted another guy.

I guess I know how I feel and how I desire to express myself sexually, which is most important.

Good luck in your exploration. Just don't be too hard on yourself for your endeavors off the beaten path of the rest of society.