buttplugs
 

I know what a buttplug is but how exactly is it used? I've never been one for "toys" so I really don't know.

Is it used like a dildo? or to loosen a guy up before fucking? or do you stick it in your ass, leave it in, and go about mundane daily chores?

I'm not interested in buying one but I see them all the time in ABS's and I thought I'd ask.

you put it in and leave it in. i have been told that in some Dom-Sub relationships the buttplug goes in, the couple goes to a restaurant for a big meal so that it is real uncomfortable because nothing comes out. now that is weird. yes they are used as preamble to getting dicked.

There's no hard and fast (pun intended) rule as to how an individual must use any toy. Hell, I've seen blowjobs performed on a dildo and I certainly can't figure out the thrill in that (though I suppose it is good practice).

Butt plugs are designed to stay put, though -- mostly. Can't say how many times I've seen them fall out when a dude is using one. I guess you have to get the right size plug for the right size hole.

I've fucked a few guys with them, same as fucking a dude with a dildo. I've seen guys shove them in and just keep them there. I've seen guys fuck them by themselves by sitting large-based plugs on a chair and squatting over them. They can be twisted and turned inside the ass. A top can insert one in himself and get some prostate stimulation when fucking a bottom. They can be inserted and the wide base can be tapped during sex to massage the prostate.

In a nutshell, you can do with them whatever you desire -- including shoving them in and going about your daily chores, just as you mentioned!

I love my cockrings and will use a toy on a another guy, but not a huge fan of toys for myself, though I am not averse to trying something out. I've seen little, tiny, slender butt plugs that aren't much bigger than a finger... I suppose I could deal with that. But those big-ass fuckers... not for me.

Butt Plugs
 

If you enjoy being a bottom you will probably enjoy a butt plug. I have two – one really my maximum to stretch me if I know I am going to get fucked.
The other is about the size of my own medium size cock and I get pleasure from it when I am not going to get fucked.
It had a good base that fits comfortably in my ass crack and a smaller section that allows me to keep it in. The rest is a nice replica of a cock
I am turned on wearing it when out on errands – I wear a thong instead of my usual boxers as I am likely to get hard in public.
It is a turn on for me in a check out lane and when you get into your car and sit down it is just great.
I also have it in when I am surfing for hot pictures.
A great private pleasure and keeps you in shape for real time.