I know what a buttplug is but how exactly is it used? I've never been one for "toys" so I really don't know.

Is it used like a dildo? or to loosen a guy up before fucking? or do you stick it in your ass, leave it in, and go about mundane daily chores?

I'm not interested in buying one but I see them all the time in ABS's and I thought I'd ask.

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you put it in and leave it in. i have been told that in some Dom-Sub relationships the buttplug goes in, the couple goes to a restaurant for a big meal so that it is real uncomfortable because nothing comes out. now that is weird. yes they are used as preamble to getting dicked.

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There's no hard and fast (pun intended) rule as to how an individual must use any toy. Hell, I've seen blowjobs performed on a dildo and I certainly can't figure out the thrill in that (though I suppose it is good practice).

Butt plugs are designed to stay put, though -- mostly. Can't say how many times I've seen them fall out when a dude is using one. I guess you have to get the right size plug for the right size hole.

I've fucked a few guys with them, same as fucking a dude with a dildo. I've seen guys shove them in and just keep them there. I've seen guys fuck them by themselves by sitting large-based plugs on a chair and squatting over them. They can be twisted and turned inside the ass. A top can insert one in himself and get some prostate stimulation when fucking a bottom. They can be inserted and the wide base can be tapped during sex to massage the prostate.

In a nutshell, you can do with them whatever you desire -- including shoving them in and going about your daily chores, just as you mentioned!

I love my cockrings and will use a toy on a another guy, but not a huge fan of toys for myself, though I am not averse to trying something out. I've seen little, tiny, slender butt plugs that aren't much bigger than a finger... I suppose I could deal with that. But those big-ass fuckers... not for me.

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If you enjoy being a bottom you will probably enjoy a butt plug. I have two – one really my maximum to stretch me if I know I am going to get fucked.
The other is about the size of my own medium size cock and I get pleasure from it when I am not going to get fucked.
It had a good base that fits comfortably in my ass crack and a smaller section that allows me to keep it in. The rest is a nice replica of a cock
I am turned on wearing it when out on errands – I wear a thong instead of my usual boxers as I am likely to get hard in public.
It is a turn on for me in a check out lane and when you get into your car and sit down it is just great.
I also have it in when I am surfing for hot pictures.
A great private pleasure and keeps you in shape for real time.

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