I have lost 40 pounds (yeah for me) and need some fashion advise. My "look" has always been somewhat masculine, T-shirt, blue jeans, work boots, ball cap, goatee, etc. However, my clothes now drap on me. Since I have to buy new clothes anyway, What look do you look for in a guy in a cruising situation? On a 40+ year old man, is it still t-shirt or polo shirt ? blue jeans or khaki ? tennis shoes, boots, or flip flops? goatee or clean shaven?
I know this might sound trivial but we are judged by our looks, unfortunately. I want to dress "age appropriately" but still be neat and masculine.
Please help.

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