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Old 9th July 2008, 01:32 AM
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Getting Stood Up

Iam old enough to realize this happens more often then not,but has anyone learned a way of filtering through the flakes............this is getting old.
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Old 10th July 2008, 11:32 PM
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If you find a way please share...

It seems like everyone is horny - makes plans - jacks off - and then has second thoughts.

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Old 14th July 2008, 11:10 PM
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Getting Stood Up...

If there is a universal agreement on anything in the gay community at all, than it is that no one, but no one has found the med against the flakes... You know, what I mean and yeah, the pun came in handy.

These are my rulez...

Do not spend months and weeks E-Mailing and chatting it all to death. A dude, who has got a plan and is serious about it will find 2 hrs this week to get his rocks off.

Agree to meet up somewhere close-by. Things do happen. You do not want to spend more on fuel than you really need to.

Use Webcam and allow for the fact that all people tend to look somewhat worse on the webcams but that we all have them and use them, too. He could have been a great looking dude 5-10 years ago as his pic shows... yet, we have all learned better, haven't we?

Very busy and self-absorbed dudes are more likely to flake out and than dudes without the major issues.

Always meet up in the public place first. Grant a dude a courtesy of a 15 min delay. Make sure that you have his cell and that you are staying in touch, if any1 is delayed. Yet, no matter, how sweet he may sound, 15 min. is all he can get.

If a dude calls in ahead of time and wants to cancel once or twice, that's OK. If he is again busy for the third time... you are getting the message.

Last but least: never appear desperate. Yup, bagging a hot dude is always pretty desirable. Yet, nothing turns guys off more than the show of desperation. Do not go there.


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