I have a buddy that I blow from time to time. He's got a nice cock and shoots a nice hot load, but he likes to talk while I blow him. I don't mean "sex talk", I'll be blowing him and he's say something like "I saw Jane Smith last week", "I went to the new McDonald's yesterday", and stuff like that. It makes me lose interest in the task at hand. It makes me think that's he's not enjoying it and that he's just letting me blow him for my enjoyment. Any ideas on how to get him to shut up?

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You do not come across a similar report too often...

I guess, the only logical option here would be to change the scenario a bit. Crack a can or two, and tell your buddy to tell you all that mattered to him last week, so that when you get going he can focus on the good BJ you are giving him. Unless he is really VERY dense, he'll get the message loud and clear...

KD

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That is a different problem!

You mention that maybe he is just letting you blow him for your enjoyment - although you do say he shoots a nice load so he has to be enjoying it as well - but I assume from that comment that he does not reciprocate at all -

One thing you have to consider is if he IS just doing it for you and you bring it up - there is the chance he will stop having you blow him. Are you willing for that to possibly happen?

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I have been around for a while now... I have seen dudes few and far between giving someone a go at sympathy sex. (It is more of an urban legend than anything else...)

I have never heard or seen someone making a custom of letting someone blow them purely for the cocksuckers pleasure?

Other guys familiar with such arrangements?

KD

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I have never heard or seen such an arrangement - I only mentioned it because the original poster said "It makes me think that's he's not enjoying it and that he's just letting me blow him for my enjoyment."

That being said if it is true I know some guys I wish would let me blow them for my enjoyment!

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Yup. I can see where you coming from.

I can think of tons of dudes whom I wish would let me fuck them for my enjoyment. I would even let them suck me for my enjoyment, too.

Being that they, too, have a say in whom they are messing around with, the probability of anything happening along these lines is somewhat small...

KD

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That is so nice of you to let them do that!

I can think of plenty of guys I would be willing to make the same offer too - now it is just getting them on board with the plan!

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Yup. This is where much of my generosity goes down the drain, entirely unappreciated...

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I prefer it when the generosity goes down my throat rather than down the drain

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All this talk of generosity is putting me in the mood to do some donating to a worthy cause

Perhaps the guy is trying not to cum too soon? If I am REALLY into the guy or the moment, it takes some doing not to donate before fully enjoying the moment. I just keep my delaying comments to myself.

Perhaps Jonn3, KewlDewd66 and I should form a philanthropic group to make anonymous donations to worthy individuals/groups. Just a thought.

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Y'all might be right. I think I havea better understanding now and I don't mind "donating to the cause".

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I sure wouldn't mind some 'donations'
I can say for sure some who have chattered while I was 'busy' were deliberately delaying the big 'moment'. I never minded ;-)

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