I usually post (well, rarely) under a different name, but to relate this experience, I needed a separate name.

About 10 days ago, I off'ed a guy from Xtreme Bar. In the preliminary conversation via a senior waiter who could translate, I ws told his was 19. The farang boss also assured me that all his boys were at least 18 and that all were gay.

I took the boy out to another bar to watch the show, during which I asked him if he had his ID. He said no, he didn't. Since my hotel had clearly told me that they check IDs at reception, it was impossible to take him further. I realise it's my mistake not to have checked that he had his ID while still in Xtreme, so I was qutie prepared to write off the fee I had paid Xtreme.

Still, I went back to Xtreme and asked the farang boss whether I could change to another guy. He was kind enough to say, of course, and then scolded the first boy for not having his ID.

So I took another one. However, the first one followed me everywhere, even out into Soi twilight, threw a small tantrum and made a big scene in the street. Besides causing great embarrassment to me, it began to affect the second guy, and I had the feeling his mood would not be right after all this.

So I left both and walked off.

While I thank the farang boss for his consideration in letting me change the boy, I think he needs better discipline in his bar, His boys shouldn't be allowed to make a scene and his doormen shouldn't just stand around and watch while a customer is being treated badly by one of his boys.

I'm quite turned off by Xtreme Bar now, and the boast that all the boys are gay is, in my mind, a liability, in that they are all potentially womanly tantrum-throwers.

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