Each should use the approach he is most comfortable with!
But speaking as a big farang top who likes small, slender
asians, I have responded favorably to both the shy (not quite)
virgin approach and the come right up and say "hi, handsome"
approach.... So, Noom, you don't always need to wait for
the stud to make an advance - give him the melting Thai
smile and say "hi, handsome"! Up to you!

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