Ok, here's a question for the experts among us. I know almost everyone wears a number and can be offed at the bars, waiters, bartenders, of course dancers, but what about those cute doormen, out front trying to get customers for their clubs? I don't think they have numbers on. But, can they be offed? If I was interested (obviously I am) in one of them would it be better to talk to them privately or try to offically off them? Suggestions??

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Thanks for the info.

I think this one looks like a cutie - www.kingkong.thaiboy.net - he's at Boys Bangkok.

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But I had a look at the profile and all I can say is that while the guy is most certainly good looking, and he might even be off-able, I'd advise you to read between the lines there very carefully if you are thinking of falling in love.

Take it from an old hand at the groping game...when a guy says "secret" it's a warning signal to your heart.

Tao

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Thanks Tao. Are you saying he is straight, that's why he says "secret." I wasn't planning on falling in love with him. I was just dreaming of my upcoming Bangkok trip and drinking wine. I might have fallen in love in my mind, or is that wine....but I know better. I was just thinkig about a possible date, not a marriage.
Thanks for shaing your experience.

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When they say "secret" or "don't want to tell" as they do often on the profiles in Thailand Out and etc., it largely means they are bottoms. If they had aspirations to topness, they would certainly say so. Similar to the way many Thais say they are a "man" in public but root and suck and lick and kiss and enjoy being a bottomed in private. Peer pressure makes it more socially acceptable to be a top in public.

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