" Greetings, Victor from the USA: you asked a most interesting
question here; i will attempt to give u my own opinion. first, as
with any human matters, there are great differences among the
cultures of the world. the reason is that each country, region has
history, certain religion or other spiritual beliefs or traditions
that affect every aspect of human behaviour. your own country is a
good example since u have various ancient eastern asian religions
and very strong traditions within ur families about families,
marriage and sexuality, to quote only three instances. from what i
have been told about homosexuality in India, it is very secretive,
very restricted ( as in most sexual acts outside of marriage) and
censored in the media. here in the USA , it is quite different,
thought not the same as u would find in the Scandanavian countries
on Holland, where gays are given 100" equality and no censorship of
media of explicit sex, etc. i am a senior, retired from Esso and
never married. sexuallly, i am what we call a "top" ( the
male partner who inserts his penis into the hungry ass of
the "bottom" ). i must tell you that in the USA, oral sex is by
far the most common - as it is safer than having unprotected
anal intercourse (fucking) . but, i think there at least half of
single men - of ALL ages - engage in intercourse; it is quite
popular. most use condoms, which is quite safe for both
partners. among married men or divorced/separate men, anal is
sex is THE MOST POPULAR m2m sex. the reason for this is that
most men do marry early in life , and though most had prior male
sex contact, it was oral. it is only when they get older do they
discover that anal sex gives them the best sexual satisfaction
they ever knew. and most of them are bottoms ! it is not easy
to find a good older top who knows how to fuck correctly to give the
bottom the ecstasy that only getting fucked can give a man. i
would say that 90% of my partners are bottoms, and i get lots of
anonymous messages from men , of all ages - young and old - asking
me if i will fuck them. usually there is time spend in oral sex
before the bottom gets so hot he asked his top to penetrate his
love hole. i hope that this gives u a better understanding
about what the facts are here in the USA.
> what have you experienced there in India? have you tried both
oral and anal sex ? there are a lot of older guys here who seek
younger men, like you, to fuck them, but most bottoms prefer
experienced tops. that is because younger men often "cum" (shoot
their load) very quickly. this is not good for the bottom as it
takes longer for his ass to enjoy the fun, just as in hetero sex,
most females need a longer time to be stiumlated. would sure like
to hear more details about not only your experiences, but what is
really happening in India in regard to most males - in both
oral and anal sex. if u have any specific questions, feel free
to write me and ask. i will do my best to answer anything u want
to know. i hope to hear from you soon. wishing u good health and
good sex. "

I thought this letter from a Group was interesting. I thought that 90%+ of male sexual encounters was for penetration. Do most farangs in Thailand have pentrative sex or oral or happy ending?

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