There is a local concept of 'big sex' (anal penetration) which takes one closer to being seen as 'gay' (if only you are the one being penetrated, compared to 'little sex' (oral, hand jobs etc) which is seen part of growing up for many thai boys (and I guess in all cultures).

My old friend Khun ....., the owner of a now defunct but long running local gay magazine explained this to me years ago. He also mentioned that Thai culture in a way endorses boys 'learning' about sex from each other, rather than having sex with girls (because of risk of prgenancy, and because girls should be virgins when they marry, and simply because men are the dominant gender and they should do whatever pleases them).

But it also needs to be said, the notion that 'all Thai boys have sex with Thai boys' (as many farang would like to believe). if not true (again from my gay magazine friend).

In fact I could fill these pages with volumes of insights he shared with me about male/male sex, the other side of the bar boys trade, hay hi-society parties,etc., etc.

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There is a local concept of 'big sex' (anal penetration) which takes one closer to being seen as 'gay' (if only you are the one being penetrated, compared to 'little sex' (oral, hand jobs etc) which is seen part of growing up for many thai boys (and I guess in all cultures).

My old friend Khun ....., the owner of a now defunct but long running local gay magazine explained this to me years ago. He also mentioned that Thai culture in a way endorses boys 'learning' about sex from each other, rather than having sex with girls (because of risk of prgenancy, and because girls should be virgins when they marry, and simply because men are the dominant gender and they should do whatever pleases them).

But it also needs to be said, the notion that 'all Thai boys have sex with Thai boys' (as many farang would like to believe). if not true (again from my gay magazine friend).

In fact I could fill these pages with volumes of insights he shared with me about male/male sex, the other side of the bar boys trade, hay hi-society parties,etc., etc.

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-- Scoops,
- While one would not want to trespass upon either your willingness or your time for even a tithe of these ' insights' - nor upon our esteemed Moderator's space provided in this thread - yet a few of the MORE pertinent insights might not come amiss.
-- bibi. --

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-- Yet another and new massage parlor has OPENED:
- name: 'MANTRA Health & Massage.';
- address: 37/3, Suriwong rd., (2nd.fl.),
Bang rak;
- loc'n.: on Suriwong rd. and between Siam Comm'l. Bank's Bureau de change and the 'Pink Panther.' girlie bar - opp. to the 'Montein Htl.';
- contact: (02)-632 8275.;
- hrs.:10-02.oo.hrs.;
- pre-opening prices: Foot msg.: 250.; Thai:250..; Aroma/cream: 650.oo.; prices subject to change without notice!

-- Usual disclaimers etc. etc.; E&OE.. -- bibi. --

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-- Last sun.,(09th.), evening I went-back to 'JIM'S PUB.',(Soi Than Tawan.), at the request of their barker, Khun Ping-pong, who - I would guestimate - is in his early 20s.. He told me proudly that he's started a 30hrs'. course of massage at Wat Po. and that I would be his first customer.
- The 90mins'. oil-massage was alright in its way, considering that he's just a beginner.
- After a little hesitation he gave me an hand job, wch. wasn't all that expertly done; but again 'Practice makes perfect.', doesn't it?
- Price was 800.oo.Bh. for the massage PLUS TIPS..

-- Usual disclaimers etc.etc.. -- bibi. --

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-- Last mon.,(10th.), it was back to 'INDRA MASSAGE.' and to continue my journey of working my way through its masseurs - this week it was Khun Aek's turn.
- Another I-San boi; mid-twenties; small body and ditto elsewhere; speaks little English.
- He removed his shirt and masseur's trousers at my request, and his u'pants. came-off unbidden and soon thereafter.
- The massage was fair enough, quite good in fact; but his other svces. were but so-so..
- Downstairs I chatted with the MamaSan and decided not to consider offering her any further advice and/or ideas about promo., PR. and suchlike: as it's her business so it's up to her now.
-- bibi. --

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Was not intending to get a massage tonight but as I went past Busaba Day Spa in Thaniya the boy furthest out front "Lek" really caught my eye and his eye contact and smile drew me in. I had been here once before soon after it opened and the boy then gave good massage but very furtive extras. They now have room up on the third floor - predominantly curtained areas - but I had oil massage and had a proper room but top of wall missing so sound travels easily. The way Lek looked at me in the lift said extras would be involved. Very good massage and then it was the "he gave hand job and I could suck him" - but quietly. Also seems that no evidence could be left on the towels as he had his own tissues. He had a very thick dick and I suspect silicone but done reasonably well. All the boys standing outside were slim student types - some a bit too girly for me but some handsome guys. One hour was Bht500 though the list price said Bht800 I think.

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-- Last thu. I went to 'BAAN TEWA.', (S. Sathorn 7/1.), for my usual massage, and was assigned to a newbie masseur Khun Dan: 23YO.; from Korat; speaks ltd. but sufficient English.
- At my request he removed his shirt and masseur's trousers, but then wrapped a towel about his loins!
- Having massaged me initially with a towel over me he moved it so that it was covering those parts upon wch. the sun doesn't usually shine; possibly a hint that I didn't pick-up?
- When he came to massage my shoulders, standing at my head, I moved fwd. on the couch so that my hands could start to explore - but he was unwilling for me to remove his towel.
- Alright, even this Tired Olde Farang recognised that what he expected and what the masseur was prepared to do wouldn't coincide.
- Afterwards the Mngr., seeing my expression, enquired about the massge? To wch. I replied that the masseur has a lot to learn. In my turn I asked from where this masseur came? The reply from the Mngr., as I u'stood. it, was that he did not know!
- Before leaving, in not the best of minds, the Mngr. kindly gave me three complimentary vouchers.

-- Later on, to ease my mind, I did think of visiting another parlor, such a 'K WHY.' but having spent quite enough that day I decided against it.

-- bibi. --

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-- Y'day.,(17th.), I went to 'INDRA MASSAGE.',(Soi Than Tawan.), for my usual and monday evening's massage.
- I was assigned to Khun Kit: from I-San; 30YO.; speaks basic English; on the short side; ditto for his eqp't..
- The massage was fair enough, but - for whatever reasons,(either masseur or I.), - the usual extras didn't turn me on all that much: MORE mechanical m'bation. than emotional release, for want of a better expression.
- Having accumulated ten previous massages on their card we'll see what next week'll bring in the way of a free massage - for wch. I've a good mind to request a four hands' massage and then see what'll happen.
-- bibi. --

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I went to Fan Club earlier this week, around 5pm. Nice premises - same as GQ, from what I can see of their Web site. There was a selection of half-a-dozen boys - I chose the twinkiest one. From the get-go there was no question about sex or no-sex; we showered together, he massaged me naked etc. etc. His oral skills at arousing me were "accomplished" (and welcome). And that's where it stopped. He couldn't get a hard-on (tiny dick when flaccid but you never can tell from that) and either a very dirty arse or lots of tiny anal warts - I never could tell from my touching (and wasn't going to investigate further). He'd showered me - but not himself! And at the end I noticed he'd brought a condom and lube - standard issue, perhaps, but no anal sex was offered

As for the massage - well, lots of cream being rubbed over the skin but nothing that I'd call a massage in any shape or form. In the end I was out of there (without climaxing) in 1 hour and 25 minutes (for a 1.5-hour massage). The mamasan did ask me if I'd enjoyed it so I thought I'd do the non-Thai thing and offer some criticism. I asked how long the boy had been there - two weeks. I suggested he needed some teaching. Whether that even registered is something I'll never know. I may try one of the other boys next week ... or maybe not.

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SilomGWM....The Mamasan there (the heavyset tall guy) used to pride himself in telling all customers that he'd personally trained each and every one of the massueres there. So, either his training sucks, he's not training anymore OR TIT....and we ALL know what that means.

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I have to ask a question about what used to be my favourite whore house....Arena.

I went there at 4.30 this afternoon, expecting things to be the way they've always been. However, I was really surprised to find only NINE lads working there!!! That's the smallest line-up I've EVER seen there. And, it seemed to me that the place was dirtier than before...and that there were more cockroaches in the shower than before.

So, my question is: Has Arena fallen on hard times? Has it joined the list of "has been" places? (Oh wait...that's two questions!!)

And, because I know you're all waiting breathlessly to find out: I took a young lad named Ya. His dick was so big that he was embarassed to show it. So, you can already guess the rest.....I got fucked. He got paid. Everyone was happy. The End.

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Long time mamasan from Arena now working same job at Adonis in convent.

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Does anyone know the webaddress for Fan Club ? Is that a new place?

thanks

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1. - http://www.aboutg.net/fanclub
2. - It's newish, been around a few months, I believe.
- Info. for #1. is from freebie mag. 'Variety.' Vo.VI:57..
- From the blurb in the a/m. 'Variety.' I read: '... serves you with high quality of handsome and well-trained staff.'.
- Perhaps, from reading others' postings, I should conclude with E&OE.!?
-- bibi. --

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