Deaf mutes.
 

-- Over a score or MORE years ago in GEORGETOWN, Pulau Pinang, I met a young malay: muslim, deaf mute and well-endowed. A recent photo. shews that's he's retaining still his Peter Pan looks & figure.
- I gather that in G'TOWN. there's quite a thriving & multi-racial community of such people who get together often, attend eachother's family celebrations and so on.

-- While living in the RP. for approx. five yrs. I didn't meet any such people

-- Several months ago in BKK's. BABYLON SAUNA I observed a gp. of young & twinkie looking deaf mutes frolicking in the pool.
- A few weeks ago a mature & American friend and I were chatting together in SILOM COMPLEX SHOPPING PLAZA - Chester's Grill - and observing a young man whose hair was never colored that hue by Mother Nature and whose gen'l. deportment was equally eye-catching. My friend invited him to accompany him back to his app't.. I was told a certain amt. at our next meeting, (modesty prevents me from recounting it here - the hand of discretion ... .): anthor deaf mute, well endowed and of good stamina & vigor - at least four times that night!
I visited BABYLON SAUNA a few days ago; while there I met another deaf mute: pale and angular face, short & black hair tied into a small pony tail at the crown of his head, slim and with a very boyish body - were I a cannibal I would have knocked him on the head, spit-roasted him and enjoyed munching on an haunch of roast Thai boi - arroy dee, mak mak! Not too well endowed but again of good endurance as a b*tt*m.
- I noticed,too, that he writes - u'standable. English - LEFT-handedly.
- We were amongst the last to leave; I was undecided as to whether to invite him back with me or not, but he met a katoey who works there on staff, so I left them together.

-- That got me thinking about such unfortunate people in a country where there are few provisions for them - unlike in western countries, for example.
- Are they what they've become, (g*y), through financial circumstances?
- Do they see that type of life-style as providing a certain amt. of emotional and/or financial support?
- Is it yet another of Mother Nature's twists?
- Is there someother reason for their seemingly being well-represented in the g*y community?
-- Bibi.. --

I like to chat with the boy first and wish him well afterwards so I don't think a deaf mute would ever "do it" for me.

I was with a deaf mute recently whom I met on Gay Romeo. Before meeting face to face, he had messaged me with all his sexual preferences and so it was like a walk in the park once he was at home. After about 10 minutes, I almost forgot he was deaf and dumb as he had developed so many other ways to communicate. For example, when he was sexualy aroused, his penis became larger:p and he opened his legs wider. It was evident that he was relieved that I had not treated him any differently than a talking person. He did ask me to tell the taxi driver where to take him afterwards. He was a natural bottom and obviously he had not become such just because of his handicap.

Ummm. When you say he asked you ...

they just group togehter. I like the comment of yannawa- that he almost forgot this boy had a handicap as there are tons of other ways to communicate. I think that its very difficult for them to find a local partner or have casual sex with them as so far I never saw this happen Asians discriminate a lot in this way. so they look for farangs who are more open. Sexwise they can be great for sure as they compensate with their body what they lack in speaking and hearing. If u dont like them also no big deal just be extra nice when u decline - just toutch their hand or so - than they know you dont rejct them just because they have a handicap

Very nicely said. Communication can include so much more than words.

It must make them feel so much better to know they've been rejected because they're not good looking, rather than because they're deaf.

I used to have a deaf mute American boyfriend and so I learned ASL (American Sign Language) at the local YMCA in Penang. As far as I know here isn't any special reason why some of them become gay to the best of my knowledge. After all, is there a particular cause for our turning out homosexual?

A few years ago cruisng Raffles Plaza mall in Singapore I met a deaf mute. He was quite handsome and "chatted" me up via his note pad and we soon retired to my room in the Plaza hotel. He was a very enthousiastic bottom and we had a great session... the only thing that was slightly off-putting was that as he neared.. and reached climax, he let out this unearlthy noise / howl (which he obviously could'nt hear himself) which slightly un-nerved me as up until then he had been completely silent.

There is a deaf/mute/mentally retarded guy who regularly cruises the Prince Cinema, if that's your thing.

A good friend received her Masters Degree in American Sign Language at Gallaudet University ( a university for the deaf in the US ). She informs me that deaf men do have a higher tendency to be gay, meaning higher than the commonly accepted 10% principle. I have no idea if any research has actually been done on this matter though.

Icon, I thought that you had sworn off The Prince.

I said it was a pathetic place that did not justify traveling to from any further away than a ten minute walk. Yet, a couple times a month, I find myself within a ten minute walk of the place, so stick my head in to remind myself of that fact.

-- This last week-end I went to PATTAYA, (ostensibly at the invitation of my man-friend to meet the staff with whom he works in their new travel-agency.),.
- On fri., (27th.) evening I was enjoying a beer outside of LE CAFE ROYALE when a gp. of 5 sat-down at a nearby table: two Thais who are deaf mutes and three farangs. One of the deaf mutes was neatly dressed and gave the air of being well brought-up, the other was dressed and behaved more as many a young money-boi does in company. I noticed that one of the farangs appeared to be quite competent in signing, with another farang less so and the third unable to communicate that way. They all seemed to be having a pleasant time and enjoying themselves.
-- Bibi. --

Recently I had a most entertaining evening in a BKK-sauna-when apparently a band of DMs-some 6/7 had their weekly binge going out. They created a nice set-up for me-will report later. Fun indeed-and again most amazing Thailand. Thanks for this hint-otherwise I would not have readily understood it-now it took me some 4/5 mins to realise they were not other Asians or so not speaking Thai.

-- Recently four other olde codgers and I were were enjoying our morning's coffees and puting the world to rights when one of them pointed-out a shrimp of a young man with a blonde streak in his hair: deaf-mute, well-endowed and not unwilling to go with most farangs - he should know!

-- This led to a discussion on a couple of points -
1.- In terms of percentages are there MORE DMs. who are g*y than non-DM. g*ys in the community in general? IE.: are DMs. over-represented in the g*y community?
2.- In general are DMs. better endowed than non-DMs.?
- After quite a far ranging conversation opinions were pretty much evenly divided; obviously MORE research will be req'd. - ha! ;)
-- Bibi. --

sawasdee sexy: your 1st point has been touched above; even by some respected reserach in a US-deaf only Uni: the answer was yes.
2: I'll have to do more research myself then-or all of us?

1.- I know; but I thought that it might be interesting to obtain some first-hand info..
2.- Happy researching! ;)
-- Bibi. --

Some years ago I used the river buses on the Chao Phraya river regularly. Many of the crews were deaf mutes and sign language was often used. They could communicate across considerable distances as the boats approached the piers for example and it seemed a rather efficient system and probably easier than shouting.

-- I notice that many of the boyz who set-up and take-down the poor but honest & side-walk traders' stalls along Tnn. Si lom are DMs. - some quite fine & working boi bodies, too!
-- Bibi. --

not just there-honey-about anywhere where (st..d) farang buy ''souvenirs'' like real hand paintings from Chinese factories etc-they have set up shop. Around BangLamPhu=Khao Sarn at least 4-5 diferent spots. Remember same-same from Ch_mai. Often with signs stating it- we westerners are not so likely to encounter that so often.