Actually we were at this restaurant and I would not have minded to go there or to a similar place again, but after meeting several times I felt like being a godfather who just takes out his boy for great dinners and sees a movie later....Pity, because I was about to like him "mak, mak"

Around 1995-1996, I had a Thai boyfriend for 5 months here in the U.S. (MBA student) who was from a rich Chiang Mai Chinese family. He needed a lot of emotional attention. One time he borrowed some money, and made some odd comment when I asked for repayment (he did pay it back). He had his own car and apartment here.

I then had extreme stress and overwork due to a crisis in my job (an emergency requiring a lot of work) and told him that I was having big work problems and could not give him the attention he wanted, and it was okay for him to see someone else if he wanted. He immdiately met another (older) farang, and proceeded to use this guy to no end. (By this time, he got his MBA and had no further reason to get money from his parents.) They eventually moved back to Bangkok together (the farang quit everything here and sold everything) and I think the Thai guy drained the American financially.

I don't think a rich Thai can necessarily simply go to his family and get money. This Chiang Mai guy told me that if he relied on his family and moved back to Bangkok, his brother (who would be a student) would have to live with him, and he didn't want that. I could also hear him on the phone with his mother, and she would make these squealing sounds when he asked for any money to be wired.

Don't assume that these people are getting money from their families. Also, there might be conditions, and they don't want to have to explain things to their families.

I see newinbkk2010 has been up to his light fingered tricks with another user on GayRomeo. He has created the newinbkk2011 user to warn others.

I tried searching for newinbkk2011 on gayromeo and didn't find any results.

I did find newinbkk2010 on gayromeo--looks like a cute little femmy twinky guy--but not my type anyway.

I've let this message run for a while now as one of my friend said " don't worry about it" but i think so far its been a shitty thing just to sitting here and let people like you speak or talking shit about me while i am doing nothing as i thought i am i better.

today its come to the time when i really have to say something about this. first of all i know exactly who you are as there's no other shit stirrir in gayromeo but you. first of i have to tell you that i am so sorry that i actually said you are too old for me and somehow you put me on your hate list but whatever you doing won't make any of you gene better or making you a better person but stupid.

you actually believe that people will buy a story that you actually sending someone money by an ATM?? sending to someone you not even know or met before? someone from an Internet ? What on earth were you thinking? seriously... if you live in bangkok and you actually online on gayromeo almost 24/7 with that picture of you an lame ugly underwear are you sure that you don't know that bangkok gay society is one of another scam and dangerous ??

i warn you know to stop talking shit or i will take this to another step. i will bring the police into this as this is nothing but insulting. i know who you are as there is something call IP ADDRESS TRACKER. so take this down or i will actually make it my way. the way that make more sense and let the justice and law decide that who is actually right.

The plot thickens!

Not really as you will note in my reply. This guy has just made one very obvious error in claiming that I never transferred money to his account. I can prove the date, his account number, name and amount. So then look at the rest of his story and ask how much of that is true if he made such an obvious lie about getting money from me.

I should add that if Gayromeo keep a record of messages that record will show that this user sent me a request for help. I have nothing to lose by gayromeo checking those messages and publishing them as that will prove beyond any doubt who is telling lies.

This has become rather tedious, don't you think? All in favor of having the moderator put a lock on this thread to end this discussion say 'yes'. Perhaps those involved can take it outside for a good old fashioned dual?