That's because you assume that what you want is what everyone else on the planet wants.

Our straight brethern cannot fathom why a man can want to be with another man for the same reason.

I don't want to fuck or be fucked. I don't like ladyboys or chubby boys or S&M or hairy boys or many other things that other people like. I have no problem understanding why other people might like those things and if someone wants to pay someone to tie him up & spank him or to fuck him or to be fucked or whatever, I say go forth & enjoy.

I paid him for the sensual massage and to be able to smoke him. Why would I pay him to do something I don't like?

It never fails to amaze me how gay people, who ought to fully understand that the world is filled with people with different tastes & pleasures beyond the "normal" straight man-woman missionary position can, at the same time, think that there is only one way for everyone to enjoy himself ... their way.

The boys almost always enjoy it, which makes it pleasant for both of us, but I'm doing it and paying for it BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT I WANT.

Damn straight. I paid B3000 for the massage experience and I tipped a couple of gogo boys B2000 each later in the evening.

I don't pay them to do something that I (and probably they) wouldn't like. Possibly where you come from people pay for things they don't want.

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