While what ProGay suggests sounds like a great idea....the major problem is there is NO WAY to be ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN that "Negative" men are indeed negative for two reasons:
1) It still takes up to 3 months after having taken a load up your ass to find out if you contracted HIV because the current medical standard ELISA test can only detect exposure to HIV up to 3 months ago, but not within the last three months. There is no "DAY AFTER" HIV test, however you could probably talk your doctor into giving you a VIRAL LOAD test which can detect exposure after a few days.
2) Men lie. PERIOD.
Also, to share personal experience...I have often thought about the "load up the ass" cum sharing thing...and for me what I found was the turn on was this:
A mans body shuddering as he cums while fucking me, it was not his "load" that turned me on, it was the feel of his body as he blows that load (into a rubber, of course).
However with oral sex it is different for me. I do miss being able to suck a guy off to completion and made the choice NOT to that with strangers. Although taking cum in your mouth is not as dangerous as taking it up your ass, I prefer not to take any chances.
But somehow along the way I did discover a way to share cum that totally turns me on, makes me crazy actually.
Whether I fuck a guy til he blows (which is usually the case), or he fucks me, or I suck him, or we just JO to finish.
I LOVE THE FEEL OF CUM ON MY CHEST!!! I love having it rubbed into my pecs and having my nips litely pinched. Gets me so damn hot, I can shoot it in less than 2 minutes.
I have also seen oral guys who wont take cum in their mouth--but love it on their face.
Its all really simple.
You make the decision on how you want to practice safer sex and what your own personal rules and boundaries are about it. Then EXPLORE and DISCOVER FOR YOURSELF what turns you on--all while still playing safe.
Its an old cliche but its true....
the biggest sex organ is the brain.
[This message has been edited by pornsizedguy (edited March 12, 2001).]
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