Here we go again! Good grief:
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While what ProGay suggests...the major problem is there is NO WAY to be ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN that "Negative" men are indeed negative for two reasons:
1) It still takes up to 3 months after having taken a load up your ass....
2) Men lie. PERIOD.
Its an old cliche but its true....
the biggest sex organ is the brain.
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First of all, the generalization that "Men lie. PERIOD" is just as bad as straights who think that ALL GAY MEN love to take it up the ass! Give me a break! While I must commend Pornsizedguy for being considerate as an HIV+ man, his condemnation of any hint of bareback sex among TRULY NEGATIVE men is just as bad as anyone else who is only looking at this issue from a narrow perspective. There are men in both the negative and positive camps who are more upbeat about barebacking when the risk factors are low or nonexsistent and I'm more than surprised that these issues are not being looked at more seriously and with greater acceptance. NOT EVERYONE WHO BAREBACKS will be in danger of contracting HIV! The Sex Wizard has presented an important point here...and among MANY conscientious negative men in the U.S., barebacking is indeed a viable option -- in spite of the scorn this very intimate activity is receiving! Pornsizedguy might be surprised to learn that there are several conscientious positive men who also SUPPORT barebacking among negative men who are careful with each other. I support barebacking when it's practiced conscientiously and only when the risk factors are low or not present. Just because a lot of men are not justified in doing bareback on each other DOES NOT DISQUALIFY all gay and bisexual men. Until we provide options for all men beyond safe sex, all prevention efforts will fail....