I'm not telling anyone what to do, but I think that the idea that Oral Sex is totally safe is probably wrong. I've been an avid cocksucker for years, and I've not practiced anal sex...and I'm HIV Positive today. I'm not trying to scare anyone or ruin oral sex for anyone...I'm just trying to say that you ought to know that there is risk involved. Of course, everything we do in life has risk...so you have to decide your level of comfort. Having HIV isn't the end of the world...but it's no picnic, either.