I know this is not the solution and I'm sure many will disagree but the last two weeks have been a total hell and the near future can be also if I let it, 8 feels he is not ready to committ because he says now that I have come out to 25 I am a different person, I no longer need to hide my feelings and he wants to see what life with the new me is like.
I think it is a concern on 8's part that 25 will be so hurt and devastated that he does not think I will follow thru and he will feel guilty about destroying 25 who he loves so much also.
Guess what, I think 25 is more relieved and life between the three of us has been nothing but fantastic when I let it.
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