I only fantasize if the sex isn't good, and I try to avoid those situations. Frankly, if you're going to fantasize, you may as well be jerking off. Just my opinion. If you're fantasizing, how can you connect with someone else in the moment? And those spontaneous connections in the moment are what's good about sex.
Porn, for me, is a poor substitute for the real thing. Sexual stimulation for the single guy. Whenever I've had porn on during sex, I pay no attention to it at all.
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