I am always pleased when a guy stops back to post an update or to say thanks.
So there you go, Woof. Hot sex without accessories, no problems!
Didn't take you long to get the hang of it, did it?
So go enjoy your porn and poppers when you feel like it. Clearly they aren't required, but they sure can add to the fun when the situation warrants it.
As for fantasies... I've been in a few situations where fantasies can be distracting -- and a few others where they can be quite helpful. Mostly I do like to focus on the guy I'm with and enjoy HIM, but as I said, every now and then, with a less-than-stellar performance, a little wandering in the mind's eye can be useful.
Corey mentioned something that I agree with as well: he spoke of how he likes to hear or say certain phrases that not all guys are into. I am kind of like that, too. Some things just really get me off, but not every guy will say them or wants to hear them from me. If a guy wants to make sure I get off, all he has to do is say my name with my dick stuffed in his mouth -- or tell me he's into my penis. Not my dick. Not my cock. My penis. That blows me away, but very few guys find the word "penis" to be erotic. I do, though. Sometimes I can ask a guy to do this when he wants to make me cum, but if it sounds forced or fake, it's worse than not hearing it at all. To their credit, though: most guys seem to be into it. I DO like to hear "dick" and "cock" during the proceedings, though. But to make me cum... my name and reference to my penis works almost all the time. If a dude isn't into that... Hell, I'll just THINK it. Why not?
Anyway, thanks for the update. Enjoy the boards here. CFS is a great little community. Maybe not so little... Thousands seem to read these threads.
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