It's been my limited experience that unwanted guys horn in on "our" action simply because it pisses us off to know we are powerless, for the most part, to do anything about it. In many instances, what we are talking about is a form of turf war that takes place on a regular basis. We've seen these turf wars take place for the most stupid reasons.
Let's face it. We can be very territorial creatures when it comes to cruising for sex. Some of us can be very dogmatic about marking our cruising territory with our manscent. Should an undesired creature violate our territory, we can be very quick and sometimes vicious to discourage the trespassing interloper.
Simply put, there are no social rules of cruising ettiquette that are univerally observed by anyone. It is probably far better to acknowledge the jungle than to pretend it doesn't exist. The unwanted guy who horns in on our action doesn't pretend the jungle doesn't exist, so he goes about his business knowing it is every man for himself and doesn't give a damn whose leg has been lifted and their scent deposited on some tree stump.
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