Ask. That's what I always do. If I see a couple or more playing together, and approach, I'll always pull out my dick and jack it a little so they will know I'm not a cop, and then ask. "Is this a private party or may I join you?"

If you cannot take rejection, you don't need to be in the cruising business, whether in bookstores, tearooms, cruising spots, or online.

Everyone has preferences. I have preferences, and so do all of you. If someone doesn't prefer me, then I need to move on and find someone who does. And sooner or later, sometimes sooner, sometimes much later, I find that person.

We need to respect others' preferences.

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