Everyone is different -- and even "big shooters" and "average shooters" have days where they may blow a load in a way that is unusual for them, either less powerful or more so then normal.
I have no idea how we might gather statistics as to how common it is for men to be forceful ejaculators. Based on personal experience to date... hmmm... I'm thinking maybe one in a hundred dudes can shoot a HUGE distance (from what I've seen with my own eyes).
However... who is to say that a guy I may have seen shooting huge distances does that all the time? If I don't have a discussion with him about it as you did with your buddy... I wouldn't know.
I'm not really a distance shooter, but I have had my moments. I recently had a GREAT moment, in fact. Skipping all the juicy details that would make this a fabulous post... let's just say that I met a hot little dude and we were both intensely into each other. He sucked me with great passion and left my dick standing up rock hard and soaking wet with some NICE velvety spit. I jerked off for him as he watched, his eyes gleaming. I stroked my dick very fast -- something I rarely do. My climax was explosive, to say the least. Cum was flying all over the fucking place and in several directions. It may not have been measurable with a yardstick, but it was an impressive sight. I was kind of turned on by myself, to be honest.
And to give him credit -- the guy delivered his own load right after mine and it was just as amazingly hot.
Sometimes, the mind-set is the most important part of blowing a big load -- or at least having a better orgasm. Though a talented mouth can work wonders even if one may not be completely into a partner mentally.
I have told a story here at least once, maybe twice. Here it is again, in brief:
A dude once cruised me after work while driving home down city streets that were decidedly NOT cruisy at all. He happened to live near where I worked and he had watched me load a delivery vehicle with heavy furniture from time to time. I do believe this turned him on. He may or may not have followed me purposely after work.
Anyway, we stopped driving and talked for a while. We agreed to get off together by taking a walk deep into a nearby cemetery, of all places.
The guy told me he could shoot his cum at least ten feet. I didn't believe it for a minute.
He proved it, though. We played around with each other a bit and ultimately jerked off together. When he came, he shot EASILY ten feet, probably much more.
It was MOST impressive. It was also funny as hell. He laughed at himself; I laughed because I was astonished. He laughed MORE because he was probably quite used to seeing men be astonished -- and this made ME laugh even more.
I hooked up with him again, too. He held off from cumming several times because he didn't want to make a mess (we were INSIDE my old job at the time, on the showroom floor, sitting on a sofa, surrounded by LOTS of brand new furniture). Having seen just HOW MUCH of a mess he could make, I was thankful that he held back. We eventually went into the basement and he shot his load into the bathroom scrub sink from a distance of about six feet away. He would have shot further but it was a small bathroom and he was already backed up against the far wall, aiming at the sink.
I have seen some good loads in my day -- and have produced quite a few that are "worthy of porn" myself. But generally, this is not the case.
But I've NEVER, EVER seen a guy repeat what the Cemetery Dude could do. THAT was just wild stuff.
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