A while back I hooked up with a fellow in his late 20s. We e-mailed back and forth for a while before settling on a convenient date to meet. Before meeting we swapped some tales about experiences along the way. In his first time account he told of winding up the episode jacking off and shooting about five feet when he finally came. I figured he was exagerrating a bit--we sometimes do that, don't we. We had a good time that first session but purposely drew things out since we didn't want to cum too soon. But since there was work the next day, etc., we decided the time to cum had come, so we layed side-by-side, hooked legs together and stroked away, sometimes separately, sometimes one guy taking both joy sticks in hand. We agreed beforehand that when the time came, we'd shoot on to one another, which I did just a little before his time to cum, came. My heavens--that boy was not guilty of exaggerating earlier. He shot over me, over about two and a half feet of mattress between me and the floot, and probably about that far past the bed on to the carpet. It was awesome. Six feet at the minimum. When I asked if this we usual, he said, "Well, sometimes not quite that far, but other times, yes." Now I'm not exactly a "dribbler" myself, but he made me look like a real piker, and now I'm wondering, just how common is this fellow's talent? Comments?

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Everyone is different -- and even "big shooters" and "average shooters" have days where they may blow a load in a way that is unusual for them, either less powerful or more so then normal.

I have no idea how we might gather statistics as to how common it is for men to be forceful ejaculators. Based on personal experience to date... hmmm... I'm thinking maybe one in a hundred dudes can shoot a HUGE distance (from what I've seen with my own eyes).

However... who is to say that a guy I may have seen shooting huge distances does that all the time? If I don't have a discussion with him about it as you did with your buddy... I wouldn't know.

I'm not really a distance shooter, but I have had my moments. I recently had a GREAT moment, in fact. Skipping all the juicy details that would make this a fabulous post... let's just say that I met a hot little dude and we were both intensely into each other. He sucked me with great passion and left my dick standing up rock hard and soaking wet with some NICE velvety spit. I jerked off for him as he watched, his eyes gleaming. I stroked my dick very fast -- something I rarely do. My climax was explosive, to say the least. Cum was flying all over the fucking place and in several directions. It may not have been measurable with a yardstick, but it was an impressive sight. I was kind of turned on by myself, to be honest.

And to give him credit -- the guy delivered his own load right after mine and it was just as amazingly hot.

Sometimes, the mind-set is the most important part of blowing a big load -- or at least having a better orgasm. Though a talented mouth can work wonders even if one may not be completely into a partner mentally.

I have told a story here at least once, maybe twice. Here it is again, in brief:

A dude once cruised me after work while driving home down city streets that were decidedly NOT cruisy at all. He happened to live near where I worked and he had watched me load a delivery vehicle with heavy furniture from time to time. I do believe this turned him on. He may or may not have followed me purposely after work.

Anyway, we stopped driving and talked for a while. We agreed to get off together by taking a walk deep into a nearby cemetery, of all places.

The guy told me he could shoot his cum at least ten feet. I didn't believe it for a minute.

He proved it, though. We played around with each other a bit and ultimately jerked off together. When he came, he shot EASILY ten feet, probably much more.

It was MOST impressive. It was also funny as hell. He laughed at himself; I laughed because I was astonished. He laughed MORE because he was probably quite used to seeing men be astonished -- and this made ME laugh even more.

I hooked up with him again, too. He held off from cumming several times because he didn't want to make a mess (we were INSIDE my old job at the time, on the showroom floor, sitting on a sofa, surrounded by LOTS of brand new furniture). Having seen just HOW MUCH of a mess he could make, I was thankful that he held back. We eventually went into the basement and he shot his load into the bathroom scrub sink from a distance of about six feet away. He would have shot further but it was a small bathroom and he was already backed up against the far wall, aiming at the sink.

I have seen some good loads in my day -- and have produced quite a few that are "worthy of porn" myself. But generally, this is not the case.

But I've NEVER, EVER seen a guy repeat what the Cemetery Dude could do. THAT was just wild stuff.

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I usually try to hold it in. I normally jack off 3-4X a day & still shoot far - or at least I have been told. I mean, I have always had to hold back somewhat so not to get on my face or hair. Me, I thought it was normal until I met others

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I've always been a "big shooter", big loads and long distances. I get off on all the comments I hear from guys but to be honest it's a pain in the ass more often than not. The mess it makes being the reason.

Guys get off on big loads when they're shot on the ground but get in someone's car and shoot on their dash or windshield or maybe over your shoulder into the back seat and they start to freak.

I went home with a married guy once, a dentist that lived in a million dollar house. He just wanted to suck me but didn't want to take my cum. I was on the bed he shared with his wife. When I was ready to cum he just wanted to see it fly. Well it flew alright. Right up on the wall behind the bed. I thought the guy was going to have a stroke. I could only apologize so much then I got the hell outta there.

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Sucking cock gets me really hot. When I can, I love to go to a particular arcade and suck cock all afternoon. By about the 8th or 9th load, my cock is on fire, pulsating and the head is glowing purple. I usually walk out into the main play area and stroke off for guys who want to watch. I can usually hit the wall from 4 or 5 feet back and always leave a river of cum on the floor. One hot pig that I see there with some frequency dove to the floor after one of my sizeable loads and started licking it off the floor. It was pretty hot.

Jacking at home to porn though rarely produces the same results, the pig on his knees notwithstanding.

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Even though I've never been a "big shooter" kind of guy, I can still certainly make a bit of a mess.

GWT mentions dudes who kind of freak out about this sort of thing. I never quite understood that. Sure, I "get it." Not wanting to leave behind evidence, especially for closeted guys, is of some importance. But hopefully these guys have learned that you can't assume anything. It's par for the course: if you're going to have sex with another man, a semen mess is likely. You'd better be ready for it and skip any theatrics if a big load shocks you or lands on your carpet or your wife's new drapes. YOU asked for it, dude -- you got it.

It bugs me when guys have a sperm phobia. Look, there are times when I don't want to be covered in cum -- I understand that. But accidents happen -- I have covered MYSELF in my OWN cum from time to time, too. I bring something with me to clean up. It's part of being a man and it's part of having sex with other men.

I have also apologized myself a few times for splashing a dude or messing up one of his possessions. But I won't be made to feel bad about it. The object was, as far as I gathered, to cum together. Men cumming means there's gonna be some sperm. Seems like an acceptable risk to me!

One of my all-time favorite encounters from myyouth involves a dude who set the standard for me as to the "type" of guy I to whom I am most attracted. We were in my 1976 Camaro at the time; cramped quarters, but we made it work. I LOVED that car and tended to it on a daily basis. When my buddy shot his cum all over the dashboard and onto the interior windshield, I didn't freak out. It was hot as hell. I cleaned it up as best I could with the materials at hand in the dark of night and then did a better cleaning job the following day. No big deal.

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I normally cum a moderate amount and it just flows or dribbles out.

But, I've found I can shoot. Part is timing it for maximum intensity of my orgasm by pausing at the right moment. Mostly its just squeezing of the urethra at there right time. Tighten the grip and pull back and it will spray! Think of spraying a garden hose without a nozzle.

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This is a bit off the topic, but since I started the thread, I'll take a little liberty. Besides, it is related to stroking and some have talked about various aspects of jacking off in this series. A few years ago I read or heard somewhere that when stroking, if one did 20 quite slow strokes, followed by ten very rapid ones, and then kept repeating the pattern, usually one could expect a larger, firmer hardon, not unlike what many get with a cock ring. It works for me. A couple of years ago I noted this to Dr. Danny, wondering if he could explain why this happens. He said he had no idea. Do some of you other fellows use this technique, and, if so, do you have any idea just why old glory rises to the occasion?

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In response to the above:

I think probably this is simply a matter of what works for each particular guy. I don't think there is any sort of "magic formula" here.

When I used to do sex message boards on AOL in "ancient times," the MOST frequently asked question above all others was: "what are better ways to masturbate?"

This topic has since been detailed online in many forums. There is even an entire website devoted to it -- two, actually... I think. One for young teens to teach them about masturbation and sexuality, another for adults. I'll lay odds Corey has the links or has posted them before!

I sometimes teach a guy a similar way of blowing me that gets me hot. I'll ask him to count his strokes. Give me ten or twenty good, long, deep, even strokes. Then nineteen. Then eighteen. And so on, removing his mouth from my dick at the end of each successive series of strokes until we are down to just ONE final stroke. Then I have him count UP again.

It's much more the TECHNIQUE than the numbers. I use the counting stuff as a way to teach a guy how to tease my dick, how to make me want more and more. He could easily give me twelve strokes, then two strokes, then eight strokes -- whatever. As long as the TEASE is there it works for me.

I doubt it's any kind of numerical, mysterious sexual equation -- it's teaching YOURSELF how to stimulate your dick and learn control. If there were some magic prime number of cock-strokes that worked for ALL men, mathematicians would be a LOT more popular at parties, don't you think?

At least that's MY theory.

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in my youth, i did a lot of practicing. and, everyone is different, but for me, it's all about knowing your equipment and practicing different techniques. i took my time to stimulate my head and shaft in different ways and stroking in different ways. i soon learned that when i edged, the orgasms were more intense and concomitantly the loads were more and went the distance. the intensity had a lot to do with how horny i was feeling, the last time i really, really got off, and how long i had been jacking off during a given episode. generally, not always, when things and timing was right, i could shoot a distance of 5 to 6 feet.

with a partner, it's more chancey and, more or less out of "your hands," since you often cannot control the intensity of the stimulation. my best times ever with a partner are not exactly shooting for horizontal distance since i'm on my back with legs splayed giving total access to my cock and balls, but shooting for vertical distance - like blasting two or three feet up in the air, thick wads, and landing on my hair and the headboard in back of my head. this was also visual intense (and comical in a way), but also internally intense because it seemed like my cum pipeline kinda restricted deep in my balls in an almost painful way as if i was wearing a cockring.

my advice: practice. with different technqiues. and getting to know yourself and your equipment.

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For me personally it depends on how hornay I have become during whichever method of sex I was having. I can remember several times while jacking off to porn on the net that when i become so intensed by the combination of the pictures and my stroking and the lust that I have built up that when I do pop my load it splatters all over the screen.

I also remember one time when i was at a theatre in Vegas when I saw a younger hot looking couple watching me stroke my johnson, when i asked if i could sit next to his lady. She also played with me, then we got up from our chairs to stand against the wall when I asked if i could cum on her nice ski sloped shaped breast that she was tweaking, and her man friend said no. I continued to jack my 9' thick cock to their amazement and when i did finally cum, I must of shot atleast 3 foot. as I almost hit my target that I wanted to hit but was told that I couldn't.

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Damn, y'all make jackin off sound complicated. I feel like I need a calculator in one hand and my dick in the other. 20 -10, 20 -10? 19, 18, 17 then back up again? I just grab my peter and we're off to the races.

Scruff a few replies back you said you take something to clean up with. I do too, but it stays in my truck or car. If a guy entertains in his vehicle he sould provide anything needed to clean up with. I have cum rags and paper towels in both my vehicles to clean up the biggest mess but I refuse to take em with me if I get in another guy's car. Expecting someone to bring their own cum rag is like inviting someone over for dinner and telling them to bring their own napkins!

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I never bother to take anything to clean up with me. Part of the thrill of cruising and suckin' dick and getting dirty is the "thrill" of going home with pre-cum stains on my jeans, still-wet cum wiped on my pants, and the smell of spunk on my breath. I just love the idea that I'm out in public looking like I just had a fantastic time. I don't think it's illegal to walk around with cum on your pants, is it?

I'll clean up when I get home (most times, but not always). I'm usually just covered in stuff from the encounter anyway. I usually shower before I go out anyway.

That being said, if a thoughtful trick hands me a wet nap, I'll take it and use it simply in the interest of manners.

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I suppose I should point out that my "count up, count down" stuff is something I use to TEACH guys some of the things I like when they are blowing me. This is something pretty rare -- it doesn't happen often, but it has been useful from time to time. I do not do this when jerking off. Well, that's not entirely true. I probably have, but I honestly can't say that this is something I ever think about or do often. I'm not into thinking of numbers and keeping count when I jerk off; I just jerk off. Also, as I've said before, I do not jerk off frequently, though this is no great accomplishment or claim to fame. I just like the feeling of a few day's worth of sexual tension and build up. There are times when I DO jerk off every day for a week or so, but more often I usually only jerk off if I haven't been sucked in a couple days. Since I've been in New York, I have not jerked off ONCE. THAT is an accomplishment. Getting head when I need it has been NICE indeed.

I also haven't had a glass of milk since I've been here, either. That has nothing to do with anything, it's just something odd I realized yesterday.

As for cumming and cleaning up and the "etiquette" included therein...

I never have sex in my vehicle anymore, so cum-rags in the car aren't an issue for me. I DO carry paper towels all the time, though. They come in handy for WHATEVER. When I DID have sex in my car, there were also paper towels AND regular cloths and towels, etc. I would agree: it's up to the individual guy to keep his own stuff clean. We need not feel obligated to supply the cum rags if we aren't in our own territory.

However, I DO carry some paper towels folded up and stuffed into my pocket when cruising the ABS or beach or whatever. These are multi-purpose, though. It seems I use them to clean up cum maybe only one-third of the time.

Generally, I hand a paper towel to a guy who is covered in MY cum. Most seem to want to wipe up a little bit. A few do not. It's certainly fine with me either way. But there's a little bit of a ritualistic kind of scene going on. I was JUST telling my friend about this last week. I LIKE giving a guy a cum-rag. It's a little courtesy of sorts. Most guys smile when I do this. I have no idea why. It seems like a standard sort of thing to me, handing over a cum-rag. I like to see the dudes smile. It's cute. I also like to see them clean off. I LOVE IT if a guy tenderly cleans off MY dick. This is a sweet gesture, I think. Admittedly, this doesn't happen often, but it's cool when it does.

The paper towels also come in handy to blow my nose if need be (the cold here makes my sinuses drippy -- I have no adenoids). Also, from time to time, wearing a jacket inside a bookstore makes me warm if they have the heat on too high. If my pits sweat, I can dab off with the paper towels. The bookstore I like best also has no toilet paper or paper towel in the bathroom, though they DID just install a new sink. I only take a pee in there, of course, but it's good to have a paper towel handy to use to put over the handle of the toilet to flush it so I don't have to touch it. A few times I've used my paper towels to soak up cum on the floor that is in the way of where I want a guy to kneel down when he's sucking me off! I'm not a fan of the "bend over at the waist" kind of blowjobs, but I'll take them from time to time!

A few guys who blow me sometimes leave a LOT of spit behind. I honestly don't mind this very much and have gone HUNDREDS and HUNDREDS of times in my life without wiping it off my dick. But sometimes... I don't want spit drying on me, so the paper towels take care of that. Especially if it is running down my balls and all...

And sure, sometimes I want to get the cum off ME. If it's on my dick, legs, chest, sneakers, whatever... It has splashed from my own dick or the other guy, just like it has splashed on all of you guys. So I clean it up. Sometimes it drips into the legs of my pants if they are pulled down and I don't realize it until later when I pull up my jeans and feel the coldness on my skin. Oh, well... too late at that point!

I'm not squeamish about cum. It's just cum. No big deal. Usually most of the cleaning jobs I do and have seen other men do are cursory at best. We dab it off a little and zip up without worry of being fastidious. We live with our cum on a daily basis -- ain't nothing to fear.

Guys like Matt I have met many times.

Gotta love guys like Matt!

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