It doesn't really matter what the guy was thinking: YOU did the right thing by playing safe.
I find his behavior disturbing as well -- but I cannot fathom why anyone would do such a thing. We could postulate that he's a "bug chaser," but that, thankfully, is a very rare phenomenon (though it most certainly is a real issue). Probably a bug chaser would want to seek out infected partners rather than take a random shot at infection.
I've heard of guys who are into drinking cum from used condoms, so maybe there's some sort of fetish involved here. Maybe this guy likes to pour cum up his ass. Who knows?
Your guess is as good as mine as to why he told someone else "bareback only" and yet he let you fuck him with a condom.
The good news is that you DID use a condom -- and your story provides further incentive to everyone out there to use condoms by virtue of the fact that YOU NEVER KNOW just WHO you are hooking up with and WHAT they do with other partners.
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