Chidog,
You don't have to answer this, but have you considered other poz guys as relationship or sexual partner material? Maybe I am being naïve, but I would think this would ameliorate a lot of the issues that prevent you from taking relationships a step further.
Yes, I know that even if you are both poz it doesn't mean you can forget taking precautions. I just feel your HIV status becomes a non-issue or actually would strengthen the bond between you.
I don't know when it is the "best" time to tell someone you are poz. I just know it isn't just as the two of you are undressing each other.
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