The "ring" refers to the sphincter muscle surrounding the opening to the anus. The sphincter muscle is very elastic for the purpose of having a bowel movement. However, when used for the purpose of receptive anal intercourse, a certain amount of pain and discomfort may be initially experienced because the highly concentrated mass of nerves located in the muscle ring are being stretched beyond their normal relaxed state or condition.
Most of us are probably well acquainted with having a particularly difficult and painful bowel movement. The pain and discomfort associated with a particularly difficult bowel movement is the stretching of the sphincter muscle beyond its normal state or condition.
Initially, when a person experiences receptive anal intercourse, there is usually some discomfort or pain if the sphincter muscle has not been stretched sufficiently to accomodate the size of a dildoe, butt plug or penis. Once sufficiently stretched, the nerves in the sphincter muscle become desensitized which allows for the muscle to relax and stretch in accomodating a dildoe, butt plug, penis or --- even a hand (fisting)! The latter is not for the faint of heart. Lots of lubrication means less friction and ease of penetration.
When done correctly, receptive anal intercouse can be most pleasurable once the sphincter muscle has been sufficiently stretched because the mass of nerves in the muscle have become desensitized, allowing for the sensation of pleasure to replace what would ordinarily be a painful if not uncomfortable experience. We should also point out that males who frequently engage in receptive anal sex tend to have a very elastic sphincter muscle whereas those who only occasionally engage in it have a less elastic sphincter. Lastly, if you go for very long periods of time (months or years) without engaging in receptive anal sex, the sphincter muscle will usually return to its normal state or condition of elasticity for bowel movements.
That's pretty much it. Just remember that no two people are the same, so their experiences will not be similar. Having said that and assuming you take the necessary precautions about having safe sex, having receptive anal sex can be a most pleasurable experience if it is done correctly and you are sufficiently prepared for the experience. It can even be a regular aspect of your sexuality if you are mentally and physically prepared for the experience.
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