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Old 18th July 2005, 10:29 PM
mascguybost
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Join Date: May 2002
Posts: 103

Sorry to hear things didn't work out like you hoped UBear.

Some words of caution:

Being single and giving out numbers does not always equal mutual sexual attraction.

In your original post you said that you asked him for his number, which would explain a lot. Being a customer of his, and even if that wasn't the case, some guys don't know how to decline an invitation gracefully because they feel they'll hurt someone's feelings. So, they give the number, and even make tentative plans, just to get out of an uncomfortable situation.

If he extended his number to you, without you asking, then, he may have just changed his mind or thought better of it being the business relationship you have. Sometimes guys can get so caught up in a great exchange, with no sexual attraction, and still feel obligated to end the encounter with an exchange of phone numbers, email etc.

Keep plugging away and just be cool. Eventually, a mutual attraction will come along and you won't even have to be the first one to call.
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