If the guy has been around other dicks at all, he's gonna realize what he sees soft bears no relationship to what he'g gonna get when you are hard.
If you are more nervous excited than horny excited, you can cause yourself to draw in and become smaller. It is a safety reflex designed to protect your gonads in fight/flight situations.
Besides, sometimes it can give the illusion you are bigger than you are due to the size difference between when you are soft and when you ar hard.
If you wear bikini or tighty whities, go commando. That way your cock has all the room it needs to stretch. My cock is always bigger flaccid when I go commando then when I wear underwear. Another plus is that your balls tend to hang lower if they have the freedom to swing freely. Underwear just gets in the way of fun anyhow.
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